slept w a friend?

Question

before I move away (only like 50 miles) we were friends for about a year.When he saw a picture of me with a new hair color he said"oh now it'll be hard being your friend" bc every girl he dated had the same color.Anyway he came to visit and we went out and had a really good time.But he did things like hold my hand and back while walking threw crowds,opened doors, paid for things,all that.You could kinda sense some attraction was begining to take place.A few days later I went to his house and we went out again w/ other friends.After the club we went to his place(where I was staying the night)and went to go to sleep.Well at first we were just lying there cuddling and one thing lead to another and we started ya know.The next 2 days he texted me saying to have a good day and all.An on the 2nd night I emailed him to talk about what happened so things wouldn't seem strange bc nothing was being said.He hasn't wrote me back.Could it be bc he doesn't know what 2 say?or could he have nothing 2?

Answer 1

Your smart, how you let him screw you like this I'll never know, but its more that you see friends as being less then lovers, as oppose to being part of lovers that is messing you up and is going to set u up for this again and again. Don't let them blind you kat, just because theres kissin and cuddling doesn't mean love, its the action we do before and after that. Also he wasn't much of friend to began with, and thats another thing you need to address to is know who a true friend is. Good luck with this stuff it isn't the best society to look for others for examples on what to do, but on what not to do..... if not, much more heartache is awaiting, I think you know exactly what happen with this one, you just don't want to believe it competely yet....