How doable is this fantasy?

Question

we went out for a year, broke up for a year, and got back. while mending we were very open about all of these wild fantasies we had. one of hers was that she'd live a double life, ideal gf with me and party girl tramp once in a while.

she goes out with her freinds about once a month, often enough to dance clubs (but sometimes to bowl, etc). she has freinds that hook up once in a while, but she is very shy and has never hd the guts to do anything like that. i think that little bit of jelousy is part of the fuel for her fantasy.

at any rate, i indulge in her fantasy by talking about it, what a night out for hr could be like, and even role playing. i act like its all for her . . . but more and more i'm getting really into it. The idea blows my mind, and i get crazy hot just thinking about the whole thing. I also think it'd be hot to watch her dance dirty with other guys. And who knows, make her fantasy a reality? I don't know . . . I feel crazy, but good crazy, even though everyone would think bad crazy.
The problem is, she doesn't think its even possible. When she goes out, she basically hangs out on the sideline, and guys don't realy hit on her. She doesn't think she has the looks to to turn heads (she's wrong) and doesn't know how to make it happen anyway. The worst would be for her to try and get shot down, cause it would just send her back in her shell worse. Any ideas?

Answer 1

You'll be sorry if you help her fufill it...one way or another. Either she'll hate it and blame you for the fiasco, or she'll enjoy herself and find someone else.

Fantasies are dangerous as soon as you start involving others in your relationship.

Answer 2

A lot depends on her ability to commit

Answer 3

lol, sry no but her fantasy is funny

Answer 4

Have her blow a black cabbie, you twisted freak.