i will tell you all why it's difficult to have self esteem
i am not beautiful
but it's fine
there's a good day and i 'm going out
and i go tell my self i am beautiful i am cute i am cool
i wear my best cloth and i put my make up
then i go out
and guess what ??
i see a handsome guy over there
i am so happy i feel happy i may go and talk to him
and i look beside me to watch a beautiful girl with her pretty face ,long hair ,gorgeous smile
and she's looking to the handsome guy
then he goes and talk to here
i am not blaming anybody about what happened
but no one tell me ever again about self esteem
2007-08-19 17:29:27 · 15 answers · asked by out l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the b***h will probly dump him as soon as she will notice he is broke lol. will u
2007-08-19 17:37:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I really don't see a true question here but I will make a comment. True self esteem is not about beauty at least not the beauty you are describing on the outside it is really what you possess on the inside. There are some quite "beautiful" people in society's standards but they are quite ulgy to be around right. So the issue of self esteem is to know that you not only possess that beauty on the outside but on the inside as well. I am guessing that you are a teenager you will find this to ring more true as you go through life. I know it is difficult to digest right now. But believe me you are not the only person who feels this way or who ever has. And you will find as you get older that people are not as shallow they see you for who you are and not so much as how you look. Good luck to you.
2007-08-20 00:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by Darkchild 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's an old saying:
"BEAUTY'S ONLY SKIN DEEP"
You said you were going to put on nice clothes and makeup. If looking good on the outside made you fell good,then you have to work from within. When you saw the other girl,she intimidated you by her "LOOKS" (Get it?).
Bring out that winning smile,and personality you have tucked away. A charming,witty personality gets just as much attention,as a pretty face. Hold your head up,and throw in a little "Flirt",and you've got it!.
(PS) "SMILE". He was'nt good enough for you anyway!.
2007-08-20 00:44:11 · answer #3 · answered by Squeakers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing I can tell you is that self-esteem does not come from someone else. It comes from yourself. That is why it is called 'self' esteem.
Everything you said in your "question" tells me you wear nice dress, put on your best smile, etc. so that you can get someones approval of how nice you are, and so that someone can see you are a great person.
I'm sorry... that's not how it works. You have to feel good about yourself before someone can notice you a nice person.
I'd say you are approaching this "self-esteem" thing completely backwards.
Try telling yourself... "I am ME. THIS is who I am." Don't try to be someone whom you are not.
2007-08-20 00:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but I can barely understand what you are saying.
some things just arent meant to be, there are a lot of cute guys out there
2007-08-20 00:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by beach_chic_2696 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself, what are you trying to accomplish... You've got to love yourself no matter what FIRST before you go out and try "bold" moves like talking to a cute guy... Baby steps! Find yourself and others will find you... Good luck!
2007-08-20 00:36:47 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. & Mrs. Davis 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
really though, suck it up. quit being emo all over the Internet and just deal with your problems. If your family and friends can't help you, then random people on the Internet can't either. Emo kid. rofl.
Oh, what song was that anyway? I'll make sure to never listen to it.
2007-08-20 00:37:04 · answer #7 · answered by Poopdragon 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
yes that may very well happen but it won't always happen, different guys have different taste and maybe they knew each other. I pray you get your self esteem you DO need it.
2007-08-20 00:39:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
man, get over it. no wonder you have no self estem if you get so friking worked up over one incident. how many guys in this world are there and how many years of your life do you have left!?!
shut up and stop whinging.
2007-08-20 00:35:41 · answer #9 · answered by trixydafairy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is the question?
lmao the zodiac
2007-08-20 00:34:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋