We are living apart. Can I start dating or do I have to wait till the divorce is finalize?
2007-08-19 16:00:56 · 19 answers · asked by pure_24kt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Truthfully, I would wait......... its not that long......and I think that in that time you should think about what kind of man you want to look for............ stay away from someone who reminds you of your ex......... you dont have to rush anything......enjoy being single for awhile............
2007-08-19 16:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you are not greedy if he called me greedy I would laugh in his face and explain greedy is having an affiar basically with a child hello 22 and 39 wth??? i'm so sorry for that you dont deserve that and he better be lucky that is all your asking b/c i would take everything I possible could I dont believ in someone having an affair and you know what if you are greedy to bad no one deserves to get cheated on espically with the baby sitter!!!! This happened to a friend of mine also he was a doctor and cheated with the nanny. I dont understand why men do this but know you are a beautiful and strong women and a great mother other doors will open for you this is a small set back and you will push through this hard time. Look your looking for a job that is great dont worry about that you ran up debt you were probally shopping alot because your husband wasnt giving you want you wanted women tend to do that it's retail thearphy. Your not greedy he is saying that to get under you skin he wants you to back down! Sorry hun but get what you deserve you were a stay at home mom that is a job he is back paying you think of that. Good luck and know things will get better!!! and you are in no means greedy, dont let him tell you that b/c your not.
2016-05-17 12:34:41 · answer #2 · answered by lovie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a while longer.
1. You are not officially single yet.
2. Even in a relatively painless divorce, you need time to emotionally recover. Heal a bit, first!
3. Spend some time discovering yourself, and what part you had in the breakup of your marriage (everyone has a part, ranging from "I picked a jerk" to "I behaved like a jerk"). Then try not to repeat the mistakes you already made.
2007-08-19 16:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by stenobrachius 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until you get a final decree of divorce in your hands. Until then you are STILL married. Even if your lawyer calls you up and says it's final...until YOU get the acutal papers you are STILL legally married
2007-08-19 18:55:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its up to whether you are feeling up to it...there is no set time limit or rules...if its a nasty divorce then it may come up in the finalization but there shouldn't be any problem with you starting to date if you are feeling the need to start now....
I am in the process of starting a seperation that we both know will be permanant, and i know that both of us will start dating again when we are ready.
2007-08-19 16:18:36 · answer #5 · answered by C_Angel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it is best to wait until it is finalized. Two months is not that long of a time to wait.
2007-08-19 16:10:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can start dating
2007-08-19 16:11:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u don't have any kids, so i don't see why not. it ain't gonna hurt noone, so go for it. on a first date just don't talk about your divorce it definitely won't lead to a second date....good luck and have fun, u r single.
2007-08-19 16:13:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What are you waiting for? You think your spouse is not dating? Go out have fun!
2007-08-19 16:13:16 · answer #9 · answered by Glinda W 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If your ready go for it. If not then wait. Nothing holding you back from doing what ya want...
2007-08-19 16:08:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋