What do most guys want in a girl?

Question

I am just wondering what people have to say. That is all. Calm down people. I come over from the politics section to see what polls and surveys category is like and I am bombarded by insults.Some of you do not come off as very friendly. Especially the first answerer. Say that again after you look at a majority of my other question.

I apologize. I am not in the P&S category very often and I did not know that many people ask this question.

Answer 1

Hi,

I would like to attempt an honest answer to your this question, which is very brilliant question in itself, though asked many a times.

See, every guy falls flat for the external looks of a girl that way relate to her beauty, color, skin and body type in the first place. Frankly speaking, it is the external charms only that attracts a guy to a gal or rather I should say vice-versa also. This infatuation makes them come close, thus by developing a friendly relation. But, it is again not true that what a guy keep expecting the same things then out of gal in such a relation then as after coming close and sharing vibes with each other they develop understanding and extend trust and rather committment in that relation.

I knew that the question was asked by keeping what intention in mind, so I just thought that it would be appropriate to make you clear that all such things that you hear about guys before approaching them is not true and also, there may be some bad elements in our society, who mean just to harm someone, but not all the guys are one kind.

Best wishes,
Ozone :-)

Answer 2

I know. If the guy hit the girl first it is terrible, beat his butt. If the girl hit the guy first....eh. It really does all stem back to the whole men being bigger,stronger,tougher,whatever. But. If people did not notice yet, looks are very deceiving. The girl could be a ninja assassin for god's sake and trying to slice the poor guy in half but everyone is like...don't hit her!!! I am really sorry about the double standard fellas, I really am.I did not make them. I am a female too and unfortunately fought some boys before. I am not proud of it at all because they were not fast at all. They hit hard. Yes. But they were not able to grab me. They also started it, I never start anything with anyone and feel like you should defend yourself against anyone willing to violate your personal space.OR get some friends of the same gender as your attacker and have them kick their butt for you. That is what I did when other incidents like that happened. You do not have to stoop to their level either.

Answer 3

Honey I wondered the same thing for many years. Honestly every guy is going to want different things. But I think the one trait all guys would agree with is CONFIDENCE. Be yourself and don't change for any guy!!!!!!!!!!! Trust me I grew up with 4 brothers and they never went for dumb, ditzy, fake girls. They went for girls who were confidant in themselves and were genuine. Be true to who you are, hold on to your morals, live your life, and know that the guy that is the right fit for you will fall right into your lap, so to speak. Be confidant and do not compromise your morals. Guys want you to be YOU, and that is it. Be yourself sweetness, trust me I know from YEARS of experience. I found the love of my life when I was not looking and just being me. Hope this helps.

Answer 4

Someone who is fun to be with, a good listener, can comfortably handle interesting discussions on topics that interest him, will participate in physical activities, like sporting events, and who always looks attractive without going overboard.

Answer 5

Well my boyfriend wanted someone pretty much like him. Some one who was smart, had a sence of humor and interested in most of the things that he has an interest in doing and doing them with him.
We have been dating for over a year and have not had an arguement or fight yet.

Answer 6

OK, you have gotten some rude answers, but it is true that this has been asked a million times,but you may also not have known this. SO, being that i am a female, I can't answer personally. I have lots of guy friends and they like a woman with CONFIDENCE and CAPABLE of holding a conversation. don't be one of those dumb girls who are needy and stuff like that. Independent but yet WANT his company and help. does this make sense to you?

Answer 7

Somebody who I actually like hanging out with. Looks don;t matter if you're polar opposettes. I'd much rather have a good friend than a piece of eye candy.

Answer 8

I think of the female-triangle in the Star-of-David---the ability to see 'both sides' (what's in it for me, what's in it for him/everbody) and draw it down together to make a friendly conclusion? Maybe.

Most guys really don't care. They want girls to make them feel like a man (while they also make the girls feel like women.) If the girl can't be his woman, she's another guy to the guy.

Answer 9

Honesty

Answer 10

A woman who has wisdom and intelligence.

Looks are second to a thinking mind. Although looking good is a plus!

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