why am i alive?

Question

i dont know why im here i stoped and looked around and every things gone i have no friends my family hates me and are trying to kick me out
i just cant take it its the same thing every day i dnt want to be here i want to leave but cant
i just wish some one could hold me but no one cares
please help me any one

Answer 1

i dont even know u but i can tell u for certain that there is someone i know who loves u more than anything- and God loves me, too :)

Answer 2

You are alive because that is your natural state. It is an irreplaceable gift.

If you truly feel like everything's gone and no one cares, then it's time to take stock of those things in your life which are actually within your control, or within your reach. There is a greater amount of this than sometimes meets the eye. But it takes honesty, it takes courage, and it takes time.

Viewing the whole situation as one big burden can be totally overwhelming. Break it all up into small obstacles and they are much more easily overcome. It doesn't have to be the same thing every day. Get a clear picture in your mind of the life you want to lead, and take daily steps, however small, in that direction. Any small progress is a victory, and each tends to energize the next. A setback is not a failure, it's a lesson.

I understand the loneliness, wanting to be held. It's hard when that need goes unfulfilled, but you can get through that. Start by embracing and shoring up the value which is your own life. It will be easier to find others who do also.

Ps. Don't forget to take care of yourself. Best of luck, and keep going.

Answer 3

I am sure your family does not hate you. What are you doing that makes them want to kick you out? If you have no place to go, why not go along with their rules and regulations a little while longer until you can get on your own two feet. You need to have your head on straight to get a job, so that means no drugs or alcohol.

You are here for a purpose. God has a purpose for everyone. If you are not doing God's will for your life, you will be miserable as you have indicated that you are now.

Go to a quiet place. Get down on your knees and pray to God. Ask Him to lead you in the next step of your life. You WILL get an answer. Just wipe everything else out of your mind.

Hope all will get better soon. Grams

Answer 4

If you want to leave but do not have the ablity to, then stand strong, find things that you love for the time being that get you through the days. Try music, writing, other art forms, or anything else that you can use to keep going.
Find ways to get new friends, or try to make light of your current situation.
It's basically a game of survival until you can get out, I suppose.
Stand strong, you can do it.

Answer 5

You are alive to show what you can do with the difficulties of life. Just like when you were a sperm and fought your way through and defeated a million other sperms to get to the womb, you must fight for your life in this world. One day you are sad, next day happy. We all share that with you. Just hang in there and do the best you can. Think with your heart, and everything will be fine.

Answer 6

When you know the big picture you can be truly happy no matter what everyone else around you is doing.
We are not this material body, IE; Race, color, nationality, Religion, mind, intellect, senses, job, etc. We are all eternal spirit souls, part and parcel of the Supreme Soul, also known as Krishna, Allah, Jehovah, Vishnu, etc. We never die, only this mortal body dies.
This material world is not our real home, it is called Maya (illusion) and is temporary and full of misery, only one fourth of the souls come here, and the rest are enjoying blissful eternal loving relationships with our Maker named above. If one takes their own life they become a miserable ghost and suffers incessantly the misery they experienced at the time of death. Suicide never ends ones misery, it only increases it. Those who are intelligent, take up the process of self realization (Bhakti Yoga) which gives one real peace, happiness and reality. Then at the end of life they can return to the eternal Kingdom where there is no more birth, death, old age, or disease and be eternally happy. You chose to come here now you can choose to end this misery by taking up this process. God is your eternal friend you left Him now you can choose to bring Him back into your life. I did and I am sooo happy.
For info. Go to harekrishnatemple.com Read Bhagavad Gita- As it is by Bhaktivedanta Prabhupada asitis.com you can read it on line.

Answer 7

just take a minute to relax. you have a purpose here - even if you may not see it right now. You are extremely special, and you're family doesn't hate you. Try putting yourself in their shoes, and take a deep breath.. when they say something that hurts your feelings, let it go in one ear and out the other. don't fight back, it just makes things worse. do whatever it takes to make you happy, because no one else can do that for you.

Answer 8

Hate and Love are perceptions of mind. Stop to think about how you yourself act. If you are hateful towards others, they usually are hateful in return. If you are kind and loving, people usually reciprocate that as well. Remember that what you project is usually what attracts people of aligned behavior.

Try to step outside yourself for a minute and try to think of how people perceive you. If you were someone else, and try to be brutally honest, how would someone describe you.

~jaz~

Answer 9

You should really see a counselor. I'm sure you are a great person, with many wonderful qualities, but this question is too big for yahoo answers. I strongly encourage you to seek out help that will aid you in finding yourself and helping you to discover new purpose and fulfillment. Good luck...

Answer 10

You are here because your parents chose to have sex. That you suffer by such thinking is something that you can change.

Anyone who doesn't want you can be replaced by someone who does want you.

Anyone who hates you can be replaced by someone who loves you.

No one is unwanted or unloved. This is a belief that is taught to some. It is a choice to maintain such a belief.

Answer 11

Life is only what you make of it. I've been where you are and the only thing you can do is turn all that around and make something of it. i wish you the best.