2007-08-19 13:12:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes and I didn't mind either and I don't consider this rape because he knows his wife and he knows wheather she is going to want to or not. I also think that it is really part of being married and if you are throwing opinions out there like it's rape then you are apparently aren't married and having the same person sleep next to you every night. I wouldn't
think any married couple would have a problem with it unless they are just boring.
2007-08-19 13:37:27 · answer #1 · answered by julia b 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In my world, I personally would not react kindly to this "Lance Romance" behavior...because I treasure my quiet rest time and just want to be left alone during my sleep period. I prefer "AWAKE, CONCENSUAL AND ABLE TO RESPOND-mode" as the time for sexual come-ons and commencement of personal sexual activities. One thing you didn't mention is whether he was fully awake or half asleep when he was on top of you. He could've been reacting to a stimulating dream or maybe, if he was fully conscious, he needs some free gratus sex from you and doesn't know how to go about getting that from you. At any rate, everybody's different and each couple has their likes and dislikes. It's up to you to figure out what YOU think about your spouse's behavior, whether or not YOU are cool with it, and then after discussing it with your partner, figuring out a solution that works out for the two of you.
2007-08-19 20:47:33 · answer #2 · answered by autumlovr 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I do that to my husband all the time...lol! I'm a light sleeper, and frequently wake throught the night, and we often sleep naked, and if I happen to wake up and his 'buddy' is 'awake' too, I jump on for the ride. He loves it and has never told me to stop. Once though, I was doing this to him for like 15 minutes and he NEVER woke up, so, i stopped, it just didnt feel right for him to be a non participant. Plus, I was laughing so hard, I coulndt keep going even if I wanted to!
2007-08-19 20:24:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I have but I was having a dream about John Paul so it wasn't so bad.
2007-08-19 20:16:25 · answer #4 · answered by flannelpajamas1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes and sometimes he wakes up with me on top off him. He jokes that I conceived our last child all by myself.
2007-08-19 23:08:26 · answer #5 · answered by PharmNerd 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Going at it? No...preparing to? Yeah...was fine with me. âº
2007-08-19 20:24:14 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not me... never do that.. its rude... but I know a friend's wife doing that to him at middle of the night.....lol
2007-08-19 20:22:50 · answer #7 · answered by back2future 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yeah but you are married. GodBless
2007-08-19 20:23:12 · answer #8 · answered by Crystal G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought you were dead, a long time ago.
2007-08-19 20:22:28 · answer #9 · answered by Joe S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes and women should do it more often:)
2007-08-19 20:21:06 · answer #10 · answered by Big Meat 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋