Hey we're both 18 and me and my bf may soon be ready for anal intercourse (we're both, both) can anyone offer advice on both giving and recieving, plus on our minds is the worry that excremente will come out, Thanks in advance for any help
2007-08-19 11:55:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm a straight girl but I thought you might like a different point of view. I've had this particular experience before and I have to say it wasn't easy. If done wrong it can hurt like hell and be very embarrassing but if done right - woohoooo! Just take your time and enjoy the experience. Oh, and lubrication is a must. And don't worry about the poo part. As long as you don't have a dodgy stomach then you should be okay. If you feel in anyway sick DO NOT attempt it. Have fun!!!!!
2007-08-19 12:06:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
If giving, the first thing to do is to put on a condom. I would advise using lubrication, (K-Y jelly is specifically designed for intercourse lubrication) not just to make penetration easier for you, but also to make it more comfortable for your partner. When penetrating, ease your penis in gently, it will be uncomfortable on the receiving end initially.
If on the receiving end, there's very little you will need to do. (If you feel the need to go to the toilet beforehand then do so and wash after) During intercourse make your partner aware of how it physically feels to ensure that it's as comfortable an experience for you as it is for your partner. Excrementation is not really an issue, but you may feel a little bloated/sensitive in the abdominal region. Have yourself a nice hot shower after and wash thoroughly. Being that it's your first time you may tear your anus, (all the more reason to wash) but if you or your partner take care then this can be avoided.
Don't be under the impression (if you indeed are) that anal sex is the only thing that a male gay couple can do. You may not enoy it, and there are many that don't. Don't feel that you have to do so all the time once you have. Explore what the two of you like.
2007-08-20 00:32:08 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok..... Evacuate first.... Thats essential. Second... Some people recomend washing out with a home enema kit, I think thats a personal choice thing. Third and VERY important..... LUBRICATE !
Start small (get a nice thin anal toy from somewhere like Ann Summers) and get used to that.
As far as excrement comming out, yes... quite likley it will, in small ammounts afterwards (or maybe during) along with excess lubrication. Wipe it away and flush it.
Last thing.... TOTAL HYGENE ! Wash first, wash straight after, get anti-bacterial cleaner for ANYTHING that gets close.
Enjoy yourselves.
NOW WASH YOUR HANDS !!
2007-08-19 23:28:40 · answer #3 · answered by mittobridges@btinternet.com 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a good idea to get in the habit or using a condom. use plenty of lubricant. You can buy special ones for anal intercourse. Take it slow and easy. I have never heard of feaces being a problem but if you are worried you can get self administering enema sets.
Other than that have fun
2007-08-19 12:12:28 · answer #4 · answered by Maid Angela 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have no problem with the excrement but you do need to use plenty of lube and you need to take it slow and relax.If you go in like a ramraider you will have plenty of pain and no enjoyment feed it in slowly the first time and stop and then more until you are fully home and enjoy.Good luck and as I said enjoy.
2007-08-19 12:17:31 · answer #5 · answered by AFDEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person receiving=
1/ be careful what he eats for 24 hours- no beans, peas, cabbage,etc.
2/if possible take a simple enema just before the act
The donor=
1 use plenty of lubricant (ky or vaseline)and put some inside the anus of the receiver,
2/ USE A CONDOM
3/ lube your condom-covered penis
4/ GO EASY.....the receiver will indicate feeling, and guide the donor how slow to go.
Once it's in, you'll both think you're in another world.....Enjoy!!
2007-08-19 12:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should use a condom, as diseases can still be transfered. And...if you're really worried about excrement, do a enema. Then you wont have ANY problems. It cleans out your colon beforehand.
Just be careful...if you tear your anal tissue, it wont be pleasant to go to the bathroom for quite some time.
Good luck.
2007-08-19 12:01:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you have to understand the importance of the mind set lots of foreplay helps easy the pain and put you in the mood use a good lub and TAKE YOUR TIME oral sex with a vib works wonders but if your not in the mood dont try it it will make it harder for you to want to do later above all make a game out of it and have fun-- goes both ways for him or her
2007-08-19 12:20:36 · answer #8 · answered by dead7 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well... you have to irrigate yourself first, shoot water up your butt, it will make you go to the bathroom till you get rid of all the poop in you. or do an enema. giving go slow and use lots of lotion, receiving try to relax and enjoy, it may take a few minutes till you start to like it
2007-08-19 12:07:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I suggest you empty your bowels beforehand.Just as it`s a good idea to empty your bladder before "normal"intercourse.Xx
2007-08-19 12:22:51 · answer #10 · answered by Thomas F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋