When you think about who much you want to see and visit with someone, and you can't wait to be with them, but just a small reminder of what that person looks like, or the sound of their voice is enough to subside you for a while. Any ideas on why we are like that?
2007-08-19 10:20:27 · 14 answers · asked by Hot Coco Puff 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It doesn't work with me, if I'm really missing someone and hear their voice on the phone, it chokes me up and I feel like crying.
I'm really close to my sister, we meet up once a week, every week. If one of us is on holiday and phone each other, I want to cry, cos I'm missing her.
2007-08-19 10:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by Jeanette 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Because looking at a photo or a call from this person would remind us of the good times we had together!!! Why we are like this is because we sometime forget the good times so we need to look at a photo or hear there voice to remind us of the good times we have had together!!!!
2007-08-19 18:14:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would like to think that it has something to do with the bonds and memories we store about both life and the people we meet and care about. Such as a specific smell or phrase can bring back memories and thoughts that can comfort us when we need it or do the opposite.
Its probably similar with a photo and just hearing someones voice also does this and so this could be why these things help us when we care and miss someone.
I dunno, just a personal opinion
M.
2007-08-19 10:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by valiumgirl_x 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because we are hard wired to to have contact with each other.....not just physical but emotional & spiritual as well.
The slightest touch of another human being when we are hurting can comfort us more than words ever will .Likewise , to hear a voice or take in a picture when we are apart draws us closer ...
2007-08-19 14:05:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aw flickers, i could call ya!! just to hearken to your gorgeous accessory..... a image makes it worse for me, yet listening to a voice actual makes issues extra effective. basically that little bit of connection is sufficient for a mutually as.
2016-10-02 21:37:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its reassuring to know theyre safe and thinking about you. When you really care about someone just knowing their there can be enough to get you through the day.
2007-08-19 10:29:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
hey beautiful
you are right.. many times i feel the same way... sometimes i fell i just want to hug or kiss someone and then i either here them.. talk to them or see them and then i fell that my urge is done!! i dont know why??...
i think cause we mis them emotionally and when you are in contact wtith them its all over?? i dont kno how to explain it!! lol
2007-08-19 22:05:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly what you mean . my son lives in corfu and doesnt use a mobile phone because he drops them in the sea or loses them. so i have to wait for him to contact me. and wow!!! when he does, yippee!!!! im on cloud nine for a month. i know why. its because i love him to bits.
2007-08-19 10:33:50 · answer #8 · answered by kati 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, beccause it is like being with them, because they are thinking of us.
2007-08-19 10:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Celebrity Hotline♥ (Thumbs up!) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it helps I think it just prolongs the separation.
2007-08-19 10:44:12 · answer #10 · answered by : 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋