My wife hates me, my job sucks, what do I do???

Question

It has never been about poor poor me. My whife and I have had a rockie relationship for years, we have both been fathfull to each other. but we fight like cats and dogs, if you know what i mean , we both need to grow up,
My boss of 13 years is a bankrupt ***. He can't sell everything he owns and dig his way out of debt.
So , all that having been said,,, I may pack up a few things and move to .........................MEXICO.
I am not kidding
Get away for A few weeks, mounths, Years, The rest of my life.
What is there to do in Mexico?

Answer 1

One pity party coming your way, need address please.

Answer 2

Your wife hates you? Hmmm... Could be because she's got problems or it could be because you are doing things that piss her off. Could be both. You didn't tell us much on that score.

Your job sucks? Hmmmm... Could be because your job is boring or becuase your boss is an @hole or the hours suck or what... You really didn't give us much to go on.

With a wife who hates you and a job that sucks, you pretty much make the same assessement.

1. Can the situation with the wife/job be improved?
If it can, then start taking steps to improve.

2. If the situation with the wife/job can't be improved then you need to find another wife/job.

But be sensible so that you don't make the same mistakes again. You've got to know what went wrong before you go out and get yourself into another wife/job situation. Gotta know what went wrong and why.

You're a man of few words and that might have some relationship to the sucking job and hating wife. I don't know because you didn't say.

Hating wives and sucking jobs are er ... well... they suck.

Good luck.

Answer 3

Take a deep breath and go to a creek to think things through. Consider counseling with your wife to shape things up in that area. As for jobs, a lot of people hate there jobs but the reason they do them is because they have someone they are providing for. Perhaps, if you figure your marriage out, your job will become better because you actually feel like your working to help your loving wife with her groceries and possessions.

Answer 4

Hey me too, my wife and I are on the rocks in and counciling, she is demanding me to make all kinds of changes but refuses to make any changes her self, after much grief I have learned that I will never change her and she will never even feel bad for tormenting me. Probably the only option is to pack our bags and let some other poor dude put up with their crap.

Answer 5

Well dude, you have to ask yourself if it is you or is it your wife and your job? Why does she hate you, did you do something to make her feel that way? Why do you stay in a job that sucks? Too many vague questions to answer honestly my friend.

Answer 6

look at Americans in mexico because all the mexicans are here in America mowing lawns illegally

Answer 7

I would try to get some councling for you and your wife, you shouldn't have to stick with someone if they don't love you. As for as the job if it sucks try looking for another one.

Answer 8

Send your answer to me because I am in the same boat

Answer 9

well you have like 3 choices...first do something about your wife not hating you...second...find a new job...or third just live with it...i wish you the best!!!

Answer 10

Talk to your regular family doctor, your MD. He'll give you a scrip for meds. Try Celexa.

Answer 11

HURRY...Join the club. They have discount rates until Tuesday!