well I had sex with a guy for the first time, for the sake of trying to become gay. I'm straight by the way. I didnt end up barfing at the end like I expected in the beggining. the guy was totally cool and everything. I still feel like the same guy I was befor I had sex with him though. so can I finally call myself gay now?
2007-08-19 09:47:26 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well I thought the guy was good looking. should that cound as attractiveness towards someone?
2007-08-19 09:53:01 · update #1
???
You don't define your sexuality by who you sleep with.
You define your sexuality by who you are attracted to.
Are you attracted to men? Women? Then answer your question.
EDIT: If you find yourself attracted to both men and women then you're probably bi. If you don't have a desire to sleep with another women after that "experiment" then you're gay. And if you really never want to sleep with a guy again then I would say you're straight.
2007-08-19 09:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by The Smile Man 6 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Ok Imagine A Guy And A Girl Both Jogging Down The Street Who Do You Look At First And Stare At For A While? That Should Make You Figure Out If Your Gay Or Not ... I Have A Gay Friend And She Wasn't Shure Eather And I Asked Her The Same Question!
2007-08-19 16:58:01 · answer #2 · answered by Manda_Panda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no need to label yourself. many men who regard themselves as straight have sex with other men and enjoy it. They are not bisexual, they are not gay, they are not straight, they are sexual beings as we all are. If there were not the taboos imposed by religions and consequent laws, no-one would feel strange about having sex with whoever they wanted to - of either sex.
If you want to call yourself gay, that is your privilege, no-one else can do it but why call yourself anything? Why not just enjoy a label-free life.
2007-08-19 17:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by tentofield 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, go ahead and call yourself gay if you want; it's entirely up to you.
If you want to have more sex with men, go for it. Send Pictures :-D
You might be bisexual; I've known several. My supervisor at my old lobbying job called himself a "gay identified bisexual."
Enjoy your sexuality, regardless of who you boink. Remember to use condoms, they're the greatest thing you can legally get from a drugstore.
To Delicious: in Saudi Arabia, women are treated as property, and men who have sex with other men (around 50%) lie about it to protect their image.
2007-08-19 18:26:31 · answer #4 · answered by for Da Ben Dan--Dennyhill 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you were just curious. As far as the attraction thing goes, I judge other women on beauty and such and I've never felt wrong of that that made me gay or anything. At the the most your bisexual, but I really just think that you were curious and fascinated.
2007-08-19 17:07:36 · answer #5 · answered by Live Fast Die Young 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to be gay? Go with your feelings, but if you are not attracted to men then you are not gay. You may be bisexual, or better yet, you're still in search of your sexual identity. Sleeping with one guy will not make you gay.
2007-08-19 16:53:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You cannot be gay and straight. You cannot be straight and gay. You cannot be gay and bisexual. You cannot be bisexual and gay. You must be eitheir homosexual, hetereosexual or bisexual. You don't become gay-you eitheir are or you aren't. You have to remember this is not by choice. You don't 'force' it upon yourself. It is effectuated by biological and psychological permutations and combinations. It is good for you to find this out now before you cause some unsuspecting significant other a great deal of pain.
2007-08-19 17:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by eagleman 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Don't bother listening to the negativity out there...it sounds to me as if you're bicurious at this point. I don't know if you date women or not. If you find you're ultimately attracted to both, you may one day consider yourself bisexual. But you sound like you're still in the experimental stage. And by the way, there's nothing wrong with it - just as long as you practice safe sex.
2007-08-19 17:06:41 · answer #8 · answered by Gigi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just because you engage in "the act" does not mean you are gay. "the act" is a by-product of what it is to be gay.
men in prison have male to male sex all the time, but almost none of them are gay. So, just becuase you forced yourself to have sex with a guy means nothing....other then you are pretty much an idiot.
lol...sorry. but, very assinine.
2007-08-19 18:24:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has the board gave you authorization yet? Do you have your temporary membership card? I think you have to have the temp card first, they review your qualifications and let you know. Don't forget, once you are approved and have your membership card, you get a free microwave oven.
2007-08-19 17:10:36 · answer #10 · answered by realangst 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋