If nothing turns you on and you've tried everything but you still don't feel anything sexually. You don't feel any negative emotion it's just the same as touching your arm or leg or face. You just don't feel what you're supposed to feel, you don't feel the hormonal rush; should you NOT be having sex at all?
2007-08-19 09:24:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
and you are well into your 20s
2007-08-19 09:24:22 · update #1
Did you try everything like a man,woman,did you go to a Doctor to check your hormonal levers or to see if your typhoid gland is over or under active do this check up
2007-08-26 10:04:45 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a doctor, make sure you're healthy, the same for this as for so many other things. If there's nothing wrong, it's probably psychological. Next thing: Do you want to be seeing a therapist? Are you comfortable with yourself as you are? If you don't feel bad about not enjoying sex, don't worry about it. Put your time into things that you do enjoy. For affection, get a nice pet, a bird, fish, cat or dog. They're great companions. I recently A'd a Q here on Answers, Who do you love more, the pet or the significant other? The A's were more in favor of pets. It's up to you, is sex important?
2007-08-27 10:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by Cam1051Sec 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go see your OBGYN. You may have a hormonal imbalance that is causing you to have a low sex drive. It all depends on you though hon. If that is the case the only solution I know of is some kind of drug either a hormonal or just another chemical drug.
You could try some herbal remedies like Horny Goat Weed; Passion Flower; Ginkgo. Also having a good overall diet is important in maintaining a good hormonal balance. Cold water fish like Salmon is good and try staying away from processed foods, starchy foods and sugar.
2007-08-27 13:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by fire_fall_now 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have sex, I don't know why you would want to if it's not enjoyable. Someone, somewhere... will come along that makes you feel the right thing. Try to relax a little... GOOD LUCK
2007-08-27 16:17:32 · answer #4 · answered by arrianna_vt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I agree with you. Apparently things you do in your life, like your job, your family, etc. are more important to you. I feel the same way you do. Sex is just a messy waste of time to me.
2007-08-27 11:28:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be a lack of intamicy & many people tend to think of sex as just that when it is just an act...knowing your partener starts with the brain, not the privates...if this is not the problem, then maybe it is a libito issue...it would not hurt to ask a doctor, it only hurts your relationship if you don't...good luck
2007-08-27 15:10:31 · answer #6 · answered by Bobbie217 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you just don't have the chemistry going with whomever you are with. I would say no. You shouldn't be having sex with this person if you feel nothing for them.
2007-08-27 06:45:15 · answer #7 · answered by Jinxyblue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not as such,no.
Maybe its the case that you need to explore the things that turn you on, and those that dont, look at what is preventing you from getting turned on mentally aswell, do you feel comfortable with your body/ who your with?
Explore with yourself and sexual aids first, on your own your most likely to climax, or atleast feel good...
Best of luck.
2007-08-27 05:14:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just dont feel attracted to this person enough, or they may be more of a friend then a lovber, good luck
2007-08-27 10:41:19 · answer #9 · answered by Cilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, if you don't feel like having sex, don't have sex! It should be an enjoyable event, not a dreaded scheduled kind of thing! Hope this helps! :)
2007-08-27 10:44:46 · answer #10 · answered by BamaBelle810 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋