2007-08-19 08:28:16 · 18 answers · asked by angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
By getting along do you mean fighting??? or disagreeing on what to do for the weekend??? or does he like to do one thing and you like to do another??? My husband and I dont "get along" all the time.... We both have different opinions on things, but we dont fight about it..... we respect each others views, and we listen to each other...... maybe you should talk to each other more.........
2007-08-19 08:39:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, there's nothing wrong with that, relationships go through hardships all the time. In the long run however it's just going to crumble the marriage. The wife and husband need to keep the windows of communication completely open. How will you live happily with someone you can't get along with let alone are married to them.
Talk to each other, fix the problem, try to make it work. If it doesn't...then there is no point in staying together. Just make the greatest effort you can. When you married each other you committed to being there and supporting each other. Make sure you get to the source of the problem before you take any drastic measures.
best wishes
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2007-08-19 15:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by artsygal_cc86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, your husband should be your best friend. So it is very sad if you don't get along. You are on the same team so you should work it out.
2007-08-19 20:04:30 · answer #3 · answered by Dance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but it's wrong to harbor resentments. Usually the things that get your goat, are really unsettled resentments.
Life is too short, have a great sense of humor and do a lot of talking out.
My theory is "shoe on the other foot". Try to see each other's point of view.
2007-08-19 15:37:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say not every one gets along 100% of the time. But if you don't ever get along together then something is deffentely wrong.
2007-08-19 15:34:25 · answer #5 · answered by regina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Hun yes,
but I'm more then certain there's more behind it...
In order to have a healthy relationship, you both have to be open with each other. No lies, no doubts, just truth.
Your with this person till the end, why would you want to be with someone who your not fully happy with? It's your life, live happily & do what's right. You know, exactly what's right...you just have to trust yourself.
Good luck
2007-08-19 15:39:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not getting along with mine right now. All will be fine later. Totally normal as long as it's not all the time. Good luck.
2007-08-19 15:34:31 · answer #7 · answered by mom of 7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me ask you this do you expect him to love you? Do you need him to love you? Well he needs respect like you need love try reading Love and Respect and Cracking the Communication code both by Emmerson Eggrich you can buy the cd's at loveandrespect.com. I'm not really sure if that's what you were asking but good luck regardless.
2007-08-19 16:21:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. The phrase is, "...to not get along with your husband."
2007-08-19 15:43:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong, but it is wrong to not to try to get along.
2007-08-22 17:49:44 · answer #10 · answered by kystarlyte_kystarlight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋