are ok with premaridal sex, abortion, and birth control??? and why????
2007-08-19
07:05:13
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asked by
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Pregnancy & Parenting
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do any of you even KNOW what birth control is?!?!?! it is like telling God, "stay away from me you psycho!! i don't want that freaking baby keep it away ewww!!" sex isn't for "pleasure", it is a beautiful thing meant for a baby!! a blessed child to have and hold and raise wonderfully until they can be with you in heaven!!
2007-08-19
07:13:51 ·
update #1
I am because I believe that people should be able to do what they want as long as no laws are broken. This is America.
ya sure this is America....but better be a communist country in order to control these things that are wrongly done....i love the fact that America is free...but i think...just like girls with our dress code at school...are taking that freedom to the extreme
2007-08-19
07:15:38 ·
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I'm okay with all of that.
What if a 14 year old girl got raped?
I suppose you'd all want her to keep the baby wouldn't you? Or put it up for adoption. What a great shock that kid would have in the future. "My daddy's a rapist and my mummy gave me away"
What if someone who couldn't look after children got pregnant? Someone who knew they'd end up abusing it?
A lot of people who are against abortion don't think about all the factors. It's just "A baby should be saved" blah blah blah. You don't think about what it's life might be like.
The whole arguments quite boring.
hey, what about, "my daddy is a rapist and my mommy murdered me!!" woo hoo sounds like a party! abortion is murder....the fetus is alive...the baby's life started long before it was concieved...maybe you should think about that before you open your mouth
2007-08-19
07:17:32 ·
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show some self respect charlotte whatever your poo poo name is..... God made it feel good so that we could enjoy having a baby...pleasantly..not being forced to have it or have an abortion...why did God make masturbation feel good? masturbation is the sickest thing on the planet...God wants us to act like humans and not animals
2007-08-19
07:19:46 ·
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if you want to have sex, screw the birth control, wait till your married, and in the meantime, keep your legs closed...that is all i'm saying....maybe it will keep America from getting overpopulated
2007-08-19
07:25:35 ·
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yes tyler, i am very religious and against homosexual relations...i just asked a minor question to get people's opinions..don't bash me for sharing my opinions if you are just as well sharing yours which i think suck....well except for a few
2007-08-19
07:28:19 ·
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linzee did you even read my last post??? i am just sharing my opinion...just like you just did
2007-08-19
08:50:04 ·
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I AM NOT JUDJING ANYONE! oh and sorry i did not know that birth control had multiple uses...i thought it meant what it said....to control birth....otherwise...i don't think it is necessary...i apologize to all who i offended... i merely posed a question of opinions....
2007-08-19
13:53:23 ·
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I'm not okay with that at all. That's all horrible stuff and is a shame to be brought into this world by man kind.
2007-08-19 07:09:19
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answered by GoingSecretive 1
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I think that if you're having pre-marital sex then you better be smart enough to protect yourself from any STDs or as such and you should realize that it could have terrible consequences. I personally don't plan to have pre-marital sex, but I'm not going to shout or shun anyone who has it.
I think abortions should be an option, that doesn't mean that everyone should get one, or else the human race wouldn't really continue. But there are many circumstances that say that the parents either couldn't take care of it, it would mean giving the baby 16-25 years of pain and costly surgery and then letting them die (which could be much worse then just getting an abortion), the baby would have a poor life if chosen to keep, living in the foster homes and through orphanages can be rather tough and I wouldn't wish that on any child. There are many circumstances I would definitely have an abortion over having the child. Not for selfish reasons, for reasons that I wouldn't want my child to have such a terrible life. Every parents wants their child to have a better life then they did, and I wouldn't want my child to live in some circumstances that could come up.
Birth Control, I feel, should also be used. Some people are so irresponsible that when they have pre-marital sex/sex they don't realize they could be ruining another human's life in the mean time. Even if they are married, they can still not support a child at either their age, financial situation, or living situation. Birth Control should be used by some people. And some people really don't want seven or eight kids in their life, some people do want to go out an work, and with those kids someone will have to stay and watch over them. Not all men or women want to stay home from work to look after them.
2007-08-19 15:25:04
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answered by Linzz 5
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I'm am "Old guy" compared to all of you but..
Premarial sex? In the right circumstances it is usually a healthy part of a relationship provided the two people are mature enough to 1) be responsable with birth control and practice safe sex 2) That probable means they are at least 20 years old. Having sex before you are really ready is taking a HUGE risk with the rest of your life!
Abortion? A sad choice, but until there is no such thing as an unplanned pregnancy it must remain an option. At a point when the fetus is developed enough to survive if it were to be born then abortion is wrong but not in the early stages. Eggs and sperm die naturally all the time.
Birth control? Absolutely, It is a necesity of a modern society. In today's world having 6 children is not a benifit the way it was 100 years ago.
2007-08-19 14:22:55
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answered by Kip M 1
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I'm okay with all of that.
What if a 14 year old girl got raped?
I suppose you'd all want her to keep the baby wouldn't you? Or put it up for adoption. What a great shock that kid would have in the future. "My daddy's a rapist and my mummy gave me away"
What if someone who couldn't look after children got pregnant? Someone who knew they'd end up abusing it?
A lot of people who are against abortion don't think about all the factors. It's just "A baby should be saved" blah blah blah. You don't think about what it's life might be like.
The whole arguments quite boring.
In reply to your additional details:
If sex wasn't for pleasure, why did "God" make it feel so good???
In extra reply:
Stop being so stupid, please. And don't tell me to think before I speak, you annoying child. YOU didn't think about what I said.
I really can't be bothered to argue with kids that have no idea what they're talking about.
And for the record, we ARE animals. Humans are animals. Not plants or fungi, animals.
Also, I do show self respect. I'm the most arrogant, narcissistic, and incredibly intelligent writer you'll ever meet.
2007-08-19 14:15:12
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answered by Anonymous
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well no i dont beleive birth control is to say stop giving me babies eewww i beleive its for girls who have a really hard time on their periods and want a break from it ( 4 periods a yr) and so what if people dont want to have a baby its ok they are actually making a right choice because just think what the baby will have to go through with a mom and dad who dont care .... so i am for birth control but abortion is a different story i dont beleive abortion should be legal its heartbreaking i mean at first i thought it was some type of pill that kills the fertilized egg but what i saw on myspace was something i never want to see again any mom who aborts their child should be completely ashamed of themselves they are selfish enought to do that .... if you dont want a baby just have it then give it up for adoption dont kill the poor thing !!!
2007-08-19 16:28:29
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answered by Anonymous
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I'm okay with all of them.
Premarital sex: There is nothing wrong with sex. Nature intended for us to have it. Marriage, on the other hand, is a man-made institution.
Abortion: I would not choose to abort a pregnancy, but it's not my choice. I believe it's a woman's right to terminate a pregnancy, whether it's for selfish reasons, because there is little hope for the child to have a good life, rape, incest, deformity, eminant illness, etc.
Birth Control: I believe it's the best option to prevent pregnancy and disease when a couple decides to have sex without committment. If sex weren't so pleasureable, God would then be able to expect people to abstain from it. Since it is pleasurable, any such expectations are unreasonable.
The same goes for masturbation. You said that God didn't intend for us to behave as animals, but who is to say masturbation is restricted to animals? It may be an animal behaviour, but so is eating, defecating, urinating, sleeping, mating, etc. Should we stop eating because animals do it?
God gives us free will, and with that I say I'm not going to play God's games. If God wants to test us or test the faith of mortals, then God is being pretty immature. My true belief is that the Bible is the word of mortals masquerading as the word of God.
2007-08-19 14:46:36
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answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7
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in my honest opinion, i think that premarital sex is wrong, abortion {except for a few exceptions} is wrong, and birth control is ok. i am against abortion unless the mother of the unborn baby has been raped and can't handle taking care of the baby or her life is being threatened by being pregnant. birth control {like the pill} does more than just help protect against pregnancy, it helps some women control acne and other physical issues....that's where i stand, and i'm a catholic woman. and excuse me, but sex IS pleasurable, yes, and i think that {sorry guys} sex should be between a married couple, regardless of their sex, be it homosexual or heterosexual....otherwise, it's abusing sex in my opinion.... don't go and bash me know becuase YOU asked!
2007-08-19 15:46:51
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answered by amymrgrt 4
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im okay with premarital sex, because i think your allowed to be physical with a person you love. and why would sex feel good if it was just for baby making, huh?! birth control is a good thing - its not saying "yuck keep that baby away", its saving alot of people from having abortions by avoiding an accidental pregnancy. abortions arent really something i have a big opinion on, i think its a womans body and she can do what she wants. sometimes people make mistakes.
2007-08-19 14:25:27
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answered by questionz 3
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Sex is for marriage ONLY, whether for pleasure or for making babies. Abortion is not for any reason -- yes, there are many, many couples out there who would love to adopt a normal, healthy baby that came from an American girl and not some foreign country or a "crack" baby. Birth control is up to a wife and husband to decide together -- not your bishop, or cardinal, or priest, or pastor.
2007-08-19 14:21:25
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answered by Lady Lynnea 3
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why did you ask for peopels opinions if you were just going to bash them and tell them theyre wrong because they dont believe the same thing as you?
for your information though, i am fine with premarital sex, i believe it is a persons choice to have an abortion, and birth control is GREAT.
and believe me, once you lose your virginity, im sure you'll find sex quite pleasurable.
and i wouldnt be surprised if you, after having 6 kids, decides that birth control is great because not everyone A. wants a kid or B. can raise one.
not that i know...
2007-08-19 15:44:32
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answered by (Linzee18) 5
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me personally, i cannot have an abortion. i would rather go through the pregnancy and give it up for adoption. i cannot "kill" a fetus, even at its early stage. Birth control (along with common sense) is best if not wanting a child now. determine which method and type is best for you and your body, I am ok with pre-marital sex. you just need it sometimes. but if you have great control and are with someone who understands and appreciates that, go for it!
2007-08-19 14:09:53
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answered by Jenifer L 2
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