have you ever tried to change youself
is it a hard work
2007-08-19 05:54:01 · 8 answers · asked by what'shappen 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Is it hard work?
Well that depends on what you want to change.
How about I put it this way.
Not changing is HARDER.
Lets say for example that someone is a drug addict.
They need to stop.
It may be hard to do, but it is much HARDER to remain an addict and all that being an addict involves.
Make a list.
Create and action plan.
Write down your reasons for wanting to change.
Stay focused.
Break it down into smaller steps.
Do a little every day to get you closer to your goal.
2007-08-19 06:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have tried and succeded to change certian behaviors and attitudes. It can be a long and difficult struggle but worth it. Focus, dedication and endurance is required. Don't try to change too many things at once. Choose 1 or 2 things, develop a strategy and go for it. The only true failures in life is not trying. There are valuable things to be learned both in success and non-success. Sometimes I have learned the most from not achieving.
Best of Luck!
2007-08-19 13:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by Tam Tam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah change is hard and depressing im not sure if change is happy or just sad..but allways in the end u learn something..change is about learning and it is hard you need to take your time and so do other waiting for you it does not take over night to change ...
2007-08-19 13:05:20 · answer #3 · answered by The Gnome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly do you mean when ask the question have to change myself? Change yourself emotionally, physically, or mentally? What?
2007-08-19 13:15:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a wonderful person, so why do you want to change who your are.
Just be yourself because yourself is perfect.
2007-08-19 13:14:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got that right brother!
2007-08-19 13:21:52 · answer #6 · answered by yasses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why to change yourself?!
2007-08-19 13:14:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean your diaper?
2007-08-19 13:00:35 · answer #8 · answered by regerugged 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋