I know it is wrong to hit people but she really annoys me
what can I do?????
2007-08-19 05:21:40 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Once you find out, please DO let me know, won't you?
2007-08-19 09:11:01 · answer #1 · answered by Cocubloo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hitting someone just because they "annoy" you is a serious problem. First you will have to come to realize that hitting your partner is more than just wrong, it is harmful and illegal. The question begs to be asked, why are you so angry? Was there domestic abuse in your home growing up? Are you yourself a victim of physical, emotional or sexual abuse? If you answered yes to any of these questions then you must address the root cause if you want to stop abusing. Talk to a counseler trained in these matters or call a local or national hotline (US) like the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1.800.656.HOPE or the National Domestic Abuse Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE. If you answered no then you still need some professional guidance. Again, contact someone locally or speak to the staff at the National Domestic Abuse Hotline. They will point you in the right direction.
Good luck and remember that it is never permissible to abuse anyone physically, emotionally or sexually.
2007-08-19 05:33:03 · answer #2 · answered by Doc Biz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up. Domestic abuse is nothing to laugh at because it may start with a push/shove they a hit then a black eye and it escalates from there.
You want to know how to stop.....just stop and leave her alone.
You are headed for big trouble young man and I tell you this, why don't you ask the mother and 3 children that were just murdered by an abusive man. I really don't believe you are serious with this question but if you are you need to turn your life around now before you find yourself in someone jail cell because of a murder.
If she has brothers or male relatives and they find out you better start running because abuse is nothing to play with and if my daughter was being abused I wouldn't wait for someone to step up I would stop it myself.
A man is always a man and knows how to treat a woman, how would you feel if a man was beating on your daughter, sisiter or mother. grow up and stop being foolish
2007-08-19 05:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by Pegi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly u r a man and u r quiet stronger than your girl and i see no point where your anger should leads u to beating someone you love. Maybe u dont love her and you dont know this.
if she offends you, why cant you just take a walk and instead of using your anger on her use it on something else. Take a walk, smoke or just leave the house. when u walk, it releives u and u come back to your senses.
one thing again is that apart fr abusing your girl, you are gradually destroyin yourself mentally. Any relationship you have after this will suffer the same cos u will always beleive the best way to correct your partner is by hitting her.
i dont support this. It is not good. It doesnt make u a real man. You are a weak man with this type of action. Please stop it.
2007-08-19 05:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by discover 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well do you love her? I suppose you will say yes. Then just stop! or go to anger manangement and/or go to a domestic violence program. I don't know what religion you are but the bible really helps. Plus another thing I learned is to set aside time everyday for you and her to talk. Get to know her and the reasons why you think she is annoying you.
2007-08-19 05:40:15 · answer #5 · answered by jess l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you feel the urge, stop and look into her eyes. If you really truly love her then you wouldn't be able to put a hand on her. My mans father was abusive to his mom and I believe that gives my man the strength to not put me [the woman he loves] through the same pain his mom went through. Find something to control that. Break something instead.
2007-08-19 05:32:22 · answer #6 · answered by whos_tat_grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abuse is punishable by law and if you cannot restrain yourself from physical abuse you may not have to worry. If she does not protect herself eventually to your pain and discomfort the police at some point in time will require you to get help as a condition for your release from jail. Continued violation will provide you an environment where abuse is not a problem cause they will abuse you constantly.
2007-08-19 05:31:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please go and get anger management classes. Were you abused, or did you see your family handle someone who annoys them with physical violence? You have some difficulty dealing with your emotions, agree? This is a great thing that you asked a question here in a safe format. You already know it is wrong. Good Luck
2007-08-19 05:28:39 · answer #8 · answered by luteachris 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Come on over to my house, I've got a few men who would like to introduce you to the "anger management for assholes" class. In our class, we take bottom feeding ********* like yourself, beat the hell out of you until you can't move, then teach you how to be a woman worshipper. I guarantee you will NEVER hit your woman again...or your money back!!!
2007-08-19 10:52:09 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are very brave posting this q. i think the 2 of you should go talk to someone and they will give you the appropriate tools to help you both.because just because someone annoys you doesn't mean you have the right to hit them why would you hurt someone you love? i pray everything works out for you all.
2007-08-19 05:32:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off you need to break up with her if thats the only reason you hit her. The very next step is to go get professional anger management. The only time it is right to hit anyone is in self-defence.
2007-08-19 05:43:00 · answer #11 · answered by lonenightwolf13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋