I think, you need to do some self-exploring to figure out what turns you on. "Different strokes for different folks". :)
2007-08-20 15:59:16
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answered by Fraulein 7
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By getting to know your own body. Everyone is different. But if you are looking for a quick way to orgasm because your partner always comes first, maybe the problem is not with you not coming fast enough, but with your partners control. This is fixable.
Many women find it hard to orgasm during intercourse because their most sensitive pleasure zones are not being stimulated. Try stimulating your clitoris (download a diagram of the female body and locate it using a mirror between your legs if you don't know where it is - its a small, very sensitive bump just above the vaginal opening). Use gentle strokes - it doesn't respond well to rough rubbing - and see how your body responds. You need to be relaxed for an orgasm.
Then try locating the G-spot - inside your vagina on the front wall - its a sensitive, rough, area. Usually by stimulating both the clitoris and the g-spot at the same time you can orgasm fairly quickly.
If you are with a partner, you can try getting him to suck a little on your nipples while stimulating your clitoris and/or g-spot. This stimulates the release of oxytocin. This is a pretty amazing hormone which, amount other things, causes the contractions of the vaginal muscles during orgasm, childbirth and breastfeeding (stimulus to the breasts will trigger it). You may find that this does the trick when all else fails.
During intercourse, try coital alignment technique: try the link below.
Hope this helps.
Saraswati.
2007-08-19 12:31:15
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answered by Saraswati 2
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Yup. It's called a vibrator. You don't even have to go to a sex shop or anything just go to local pharmacy Walgreen's whatever and look for massagers conair makes a cheap and effective one for about $14.00 put that on your clitoris for a few minutes, and fantasize away. You'll be there in no time
2007-08-19 12:20:19
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answered by Anonymous
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Very gently stroke the clitoris--the underside has a little cleft which is very sensitive! Then use a circular motion making the lightest contact, and the little bud will stiffen and elongate and jut out from the hood which can now be drawn back. It is now possible to put a finger into your vagina and use moist lubricant there to apply to the clitoris which you masterbate while continuing to insert fingers into vagina.
2007-08-19 12:22:31
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answered by Anonymous
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Have you tried sex? It's been popular for some time.
2007-08-19 12:42:29
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answered by Anonymous
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do kegel exercise dude! and you must concentrate while ahving sex...
2007-08-19 12:20:05
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answered by eil ashti 5
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