I have been married six months... my husband is in the military and on a carrier right now. I love him and miss him very much - I DO NOT cheat! Anyhow, I have had two dreams recently involving me kissing other men. In one dream I knew the guy, but am not attracted to him and in the other dream it was someone I dont know. It never goes beyond kissing. After the first dream I blew it off but now, a week later, I have a similiar dream. What does this mean? Is it just because I am lonely while he is away? There is no other man in my life or that I'm wanting to be in my life. I'm just not used to dreaming about other guys that way. Usually if it's a sex or sexually-related dream it involves my husband. Your thoughts??
2007-08-19 04:22:09 · 8 answers · asked by funshinerika 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think it's anything to worry about. I have dreams about how things used to be back when I was married and my kids were little. That was 20 years ago. For me, I think what it means is that I miss being married and having the family life. For you, I think your dreams mean that you are lonely and you miss your husband. Just because the guy doesn't happen to be your husband means little I think. In my dreams, my ex is not always there or not always the actual person. Even my kids are sometimes somebody else. I don't think that the actual person means all that much. I think it's mainly the idea. Hope this helps. Best wishes.
2007-08-19 04:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a pat of your subconscious, and a recognition by your body that the sexual diet you had just grown accustomed to has been attenuated during this float (tour). The fact that you don't know the men in the dreams speaks more to the physical intimacy itself as being missed when absent than any connection with someone in particular.Even now you're not actually dreaming about other guys, per se, but you're craving what's gone. It's perfectly normal and nothing to worry about. Here's to a speedy deployment.
2007-08-19 11:30:30 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very normal and yes, it's due to being lonely. Don't worry about it. You are looking for an emotional connection that you can't have right now but you crave it. It's just a dream.
2007-08-19 11:26:34 · answer #3 · answered by Linda K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People in dreams dont necesarrily mean anything, its more your feelings during the dream and your surroundings. ITs probably simply just your desire to be with your husband. I'm sure it is, see your doubting yourself here why? You know you dont so it must mean something else. Right? Right? mmmm, good luck Kim
2007-08-19 11:27:22 · answer #4 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This particular dream is just giving into your yearning for your husband. I wouldn't think anything of it, just your brain having fun with your heartache. Shame on your brain! I hope you get to see your husband soon and congratulations on being in love!
2007-08-23 03:55:38 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. CT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is just because you are lonely. When you go to bed try going to sleep thinking of your hubby. ( I am sure you already do.) They are just dreams and nothing more do not read to much into them.
2007-08-19 11:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you are lonely and your brain is compsensating. It's just a dream......
2007-08-19 11:25:38 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey this is nothing to worry about. It's only a dream...
2007-08-19 11:29:55 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋