okay i friend well he considers me his best friend. but i can't say the same. but i dont tell him that cus thats mean. but i have never said he's my best friend i just say your a good friend.
well this is the situation.
The other day he asked me how i was(it was about 1 am). i said im good but recieved bad news (about someone i use to know.) and then my phone started dying and hes like whats the bad news. i called him to tell him my phone was dying so i was gonna make it quick but he didn't pick up so he wrote. can't you just text it to me. so i replied. no just 4 get. its okay im sleepy anyways im going to bed. then my phone died once i sent it. so i went to sleep to tired to look for my charager. woke up in the morning. found my charger turned the phone on. i recieve 3 messages from him.
1. omg y do you do this. im so pissed at you. tell me
2. dude im so effin mad at you right now.
3. what type of friend are you?
(*nice messages to wake up to)
so #3 is what really got to me....
2007-08-19 01:19:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I called him im like what the heck. What type of friend am i? well first of all my phone died I couldn’t answer. And what type of friend am I that bothers me. Cus I have always been there for you (I have always been there for him. He calls me usually at 12 am to tell me his issues. First I use to give him advice then he would get mad, starts yelling at me cus he would say I had no right. So I stopped. Then he tells me about his friends issue and im like okay what do you want me to tell you I don’t know them. Then if he doesn’t get a reply he likes he freakin insults me. So im like okay im just listening right now. Since I can’t be straight forward with you since your so darn touché.)
2007-08-19 01:19:28 · update #1
and he’s like I know you have always been there for me. But I want to be there for you. (okay I have given him the opportunity to be there for me. But when ever I do tell him something he doesn’t care. He ignores me or fall asleep on me. Which I usually let go cus I get it. Its late and hes tired.) so im like okay this isn’t a competition. And i was like so don’t go off and say what type of friend am i. cus you damn well what type of friend am i. so he’s like I was just mad at you cus you didn’t reply. So I was okay w/e it was a misunderstanding.
But idk why im mad? Do I have the right to be mad?
Please be kind.
2007-08-19 01:19:36 · update #2
well yes of course everyone has the right to be mad, but still try to understand what he thinks. it may seem wrong to you but he is a different person with different beliefs. dont retaliate angrily but ask him not to interupt you and tell him all your thoughts. if he reacts badly then you have a right to question what sort of friend he is. tell him you think he is a close friend not a best friend. i was caught up in the same situation. there was this girl who used to bully me but then she grew up and matured and became really nice but she kept on lashing out at me every now and again and she called me her best friend and i said im not because we are aways fighting... then she got offended but she kept on being nice. after a while we got over our differences and when we fighted it was a big laugh and we just randomly insulted each other for fun... then i was like ok ill be ur best friend now but she said no you rejected me... but then i was her best friend anyway... so i ended up in both your situation and his situation.. so i kinda understand how ur both feeling.. but stuff just sorts itself out if u be honest with him...
hope that helps ya! you can email me if you need more help
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2007-08-19 05:29:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just learn how to forgive and forget. It is just small matter and just misunderstanding.
Certain people couldnt sleep at night when they can't clear their work before they go to bed and some people couldnt get proper sleep if they are thinking too much or nervous .
That night you called him maybe he didnt get proper sleep thinking of you whats wrong and whats going on with you, why no response.thats why he asked you "Why you do that to him?"
If i were your friend i will drive my car and see you immidiately, who knows if you are in trouble or not? but of course i also get pissed off and i may say the same to you just what he said..but not that really mad..it is just a mixed feelings that sometimes we can't explain.
I can imagine how he feels when you called and start a conversation and you hang up and called again and suddenly OFF your phone..then when you get up you saw his 3 messages and you replied you "FORGOT"..well can't blame him get mad on you but i guess he didnt meant it.
You should apologies to him..i think he's a good friend of your's, otherwise he won't waste time Text you again.
2007-08-19 08:49:10 · answer #2 · answered by janechua29 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all you got to sort out the misunderstanding between you two & its for you to decide whether this friendship is for keeps or not but get your situation cleared out anyways.
no need to get mad,its just faulty communication.
Chillax & talk over it.Good luck
2007-08-19 08:26:32 · answer #3 · answered by glamdoll 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes u do!!!! ask him what kind of friend he is and then tell him that u dont need friends like that!!!!! then if he asksto still b ur friend, then give him 1 more chance and tell him that it better not happen again.
2007-08-19 08:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you have the right to be angry. Let him stew over it until he gets tired of himself.
2007-08-19 08:26:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't sound like a true friend. It sounds more like he wants to dominate you.
2007-08-19 08:29:43 · answer #6 · answered by barbwire 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have every right to be mad at him
but my question for you is..
why are you still friends with him ??
2007-08-19 22:46:21 · answer #7 · answered by cityancolour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be upset, too. He sounds like he thinks he owns you.
2007-08-19 08:26:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
well, you kinda have the right . you just gotta let your anger out.
2007-08-20 02:09:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok,, sounds like he's inlove with you or something,
2007-08-19 08:28:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋