Ahhh I just lost it!?

Question

My virginity that is, was 14 to young?

Hes being my boyfriend for 1 and a half.

Hes about a fortnight older than me.

Oh and why are MEN on the women's health section!?!?
Dirty pervs.

Music is The Word:
Are you thick or something!?!?
I have a boyfriend but that doesn't mean I can make other friends (not boyfriends) who are boys you idiot.

Put it this way Music Is The Word:

I did meet someone called Mike but have no feelings for him whatsoever.
Unlike my boyfriend who I do have feeling for.

What is with the 'wait until marriage brigade'!?!?

Are you afraid to have fun or something?

If men answering this have any health expertise or actually can help then your welcome, but all other men should go and find something better to do!

Music Is The Word:
You've really upset me now.
Going into a children's home is not something to joke about!
I got visited by my boyfriend last night, and you know.

I suppose I am giving 'b*tchy' responses but people shouldn't be mean.

Everyone, please don't say talk to my mum, I am in child care.

Thank you Music Is The Word.
I feel better now.

345:
No the Bible means nothing to me.
There is no God, only science and logic.
Anyway what is with the 'wait until marriage' brigade.
I think you're afraid to have fun.

Answer 1

There isn't a whole lot to change your situation now. The decision was yours and your BF's.

That you have both chosen to be adults about this, you both need to ensure that you do not get pregnant, nor either of you develop an STD; make sure he wears a condom and speak to your mom about birth control. I know it will be uncomfortable speaking to your mom, but be open with her like you were here, explain to her that you both need support right now. She (and your dad) will be disappointed, yes, but things cannot be reversed; so really, once they get over the shock, they should be able to sit down with the both of you and also want to ensure no accidents happen. Once you are open with your parents, you don't have to suffer strangers' un-supportiveness of your situation.

Good luck to you both.

Answer 2

Well, since you are apparently asking a personal opinion, I would say that 14 years old is a little too young. When a young girl has sex, should be educated in what can happen. There is a lot of responsibility that goes with having sex. There is also a lot of risk, pregnancy, std's and so on. My suggestion is before the next time, wait till you are older before engaging in sex again.

Answer 3

Ok, I'm not going to judge you, because like someone already said, it's too late now. However, think about this, the younger you start, the more sexual partners you are going to have and depending on what kind of person you are, you might regret it in the long run and when you grow older and wiser, you might feel guilty about it. Now that you are on that route, take birth control. Falling pregnant at your age is going to ruin your life and that of a potential child.

Answer 4

uh yeah 14 is too young. If you cannot afford a child (protection is NEVER 100% perfect or foulproof) then quit screwing your boyfriend.

- oh and you can't just go out and get plan B or an abortion- they also cost $$$..

cheapskates.

Well now that you had sex with your boyfriend, I'm sure he will break up with you soon.. Its too easy- you cave in and he'll find another virgin to pop or a different girl.

and honestly a 14 year old knows nothing of real responsibility when it comes to relationships.

Answer 5

I thought you had just met a really cute guy called Mike who wanted you to teach him French, I think sombody is telling porkies.

I thought you were actually for real yesterday but now I just think your after the answers with your daft question.

Mate, you cant call me thick, Im not some fourteen year old kid who is on my back getting filled with spunky when they should be out playing with their friends.

Your not even an adult and your doing things what adults do.

But anyway, its your decision, deal with with if your think your grown up enough. why are you asking all these people on here if its to young, its your life.

Well, im sorry, I didnt mean to upset you, but going into a childrens home proves that you are just that, a child. And by the way I have made no jokes about you going into a childrens home.

Perhaps you should seriously think about your long term future instead of your short term fun.

Listen up mate, i can give you some sound advise...Go to school, study hard..Go to Uni, get a good job.

You can worry about guys and sex when your a little older, 14 is way to young.

Answer 6

Seriously lady, what did you expect to get asking a question like this? You can't expect everyone to say 'no, no you're fine!' because 14 is underage and illegal - even if you were ready or not. I personally think it's entirely upto the individual, but don't go broadcasting it on here! If you need a load of strangers to absolve you, chances are you feel somewhere that you are too young.

You can't ask something like this and then come out with a load of b*tchy responses to everyone who has something to say you don't like.

Answer 7

I was 14 when i lost my virginity to a 20 year old man!!!! Biggest mistake of my life, regret it soooooooooo bad. Wasnt until i got older that i saw it as it was, he was PERVERT who obviously took advantage of a 14 year old girl. I stayed with him for just over a year. You say this lad is the same age as you so he is not a pervert but i still would have waited a little longer.

Answer 8

Yes, 14 is WAY too young- what were you thinking? First of all, doesn't the Bible mean anything to you? Sex before marriage is going against everything the Bible teaches...too late now, I guess for a lecture. Talk to your mom and go to a gynecologist and get checked for STD's and pregnancy, that is, if you've started your period, which I assume you have.

Answer 9

'Oh and why are MEN on the women's health section!?!?
Dirty pervs.'

then every male gynaecologist is a perv.

whats wrong if we have some knowledge about womens health? I think its okay to answer to women what is a stereotactic breast biopsy.


and 14 isnt too young. think when they did it in ancient Rome. once they hit the puberty, they already started mating.

Answer 10

Yes