I mean, you help them all the time, call them, talk to them daily for hours, make them cheer up.. etc..
and they turn out to be ungrateful..
What do you do in this situation!!
2007-08-19 00:40:19 · 15 answers · asked by Ghanouge 4 in Travel ➔ Africa & Middle East ➔ Lebanon
Many........
some of my friends whom i thought they are my best friends, have stabbed me in the back and cause me unbearable hurt.
tell you what ........... some of my family members also......
with my so-called friends...... i left them
with my so-called family members .... i only just say hi,,,, pray for them..... selat ra7em mosh 2aktar...... but no feelings
I'm in tears right now .......... but anyhow thanks for the question
2007-08-19 00:55:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she is an ex-friend. I try to be a good person and her help BUT by me trying to help her after her constant ungratefulness is in a way manipulation. I do not like it when she mistakes my kindness as weakness and takes advantage. This showed me that she is not my friend because friends do not do that to each other. That is why she is my ex-friend. Eventually I learned that I have to get rid of the negative people in my life for my own peace of mind.
2007-08-19 08:02:08 · answer #2 · answered by eliene875 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well yeah i know some
but i don't really call them everyday and talk for hours..and make them cheer up
there is this girl in my class ...we're like only friends nothing more
so i don't really call her only rarely
so once we had this really big physics homework ...
and as i'm the smart one
she called and i answered ...i got really shocked
cause i mean ."how coem she's calling"
ok i was still working on the homework.. so i pick up the phone ..she says "have you done the physics homework?"
so i said " oh hi miriam, how are you, i'm fine.!!!...i haven't finished yet...what about you?"
then she does get some help
but that was really rude ...you call soemone and you don't even say hi
!!??
2007-08-20 05:29:22 · answer #3 · answered by HG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...one of my friends. I helped her so much...i brought her into my family like a sister and after she used me for lots of favours she turned out to be such a horrible person. I even begged my mum to allow her to stay with us for more than a week cos she "run" away from home.
Now i just ignore her...but whenever she needs me i still help her cos i can't help it...lol i can't see people with trouble and not help.
2007-08-19 06:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by MiSs _L 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My husbands entire family. They are takers, it's the way they were brought up. They never say thank you and they never return favours.
After years of this behaviour I just try to stay away from them. They always have an ulterior motive and I don't like that.
2007-08-19 00:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by Choqs 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
yeah my aunt is ungrateful, but i do like her cause she's my aunt before everything and we don't do anything with this situation just keep helping her when she need's our helping.
sorry aunt about these words but that's the truth which you still don't know it..
2007-08-19 02:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by Sara 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You call them more, you talk to them more, you cheer them up more...because you know that they would do the same for you.
2007-08-19 11:50:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately the whole society...Grateful people form the exception nowdays...
2007-08-19 01:20:05 · answer #8 · answered by Leonarda 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well , I look at the big picture & believe that what goes around comes around !
In our country , we have a saying ....every dog has his day ! Maybe today is your day , maybe not !
2007-08-19 00:45:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
no...and i don't think you know anyone who is ungrateful either...especially not the person you're talking about
(whomever that person is...lol)
2007-08-19 05:04:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋