why I want to be alone??

Question

I feel alone and unloved yet I dont want to talk with anyone, go out or connect with people.

how do you call this symptoms?
Any tips to feel better?

Answer 1

What exactly is it that makes you feel unloved and alone? Did someone or some people make you feel that way? Dig deeper on why you think you're feeling this way.

You can actually be alone. You can rent a sad movie and cry your heart out...just you & no one else. It may help let out the cry that needs to come out. You can even take a nice walk. You can jog or exercise to help relieve stress or tensions.

But, as much as you want to be alone, eventually you'll have to start confiding in a friend on what's bothering you or go see a therapist. Because it's not healthy to feel alone and unloved for so long that you refuse to connect with anyone.

You may also be depressed and should seek professional help.

I'm sorry you're feeling this way right now.
Good luck.

Answer 2

u feel unloved is because u dun show it to others in the first place! when u start to open up, things WILL change. e.g. chances of getting a smile back is higher when u smile at another person first. if u keep thinking ur alone and nobody cares, things are gonna stay that way. start by asking a friend out for shopping or movie. not sit down and have coffee! u might have nothing to discuss about and feel that its useless. well this is just for the first time. subsequently, ur gonna have more things to talk about.

Answer 3

Powderblack

You are depressed.

The best way to alleviate depression is to GET UP, and MOVE! You need to take a walk, exercise, outside is best, because you will get some fresh air. If you are determined not to go out, at least do some exercise inside. You need oxygen. Put on some upbeat music, dance or exercise to the music. Drink water, most likely to are also dehydrated.

Next, shower, put on makeup, do your hair, dress in something clean and comfortable.

Do something nice for someone. Write a letter, or send an e-mail to someone, giving them a sincere compliment. Get, and keep, your mind off yourself. If you are a Christian, read your bible and pray. Make a list of all the things for which you are grateful.

It is difficult, but it is possible to pull yourself out of depression. You have already taken the first step. You recognized that there is a problem. If you want to do something about it, you can. I BELIEVE YOU WANT TO.

God Bless Powderblack, please help her to call upon you. Surround her with your Holy Spirit, bringing her hope and faith in place of despair, send others to encourage her, I ask it in the name of Jesus. Thanking you for the answer which you provided before we even asked.

Answer 4

I agree with the other poster...it could be depression. Sometimes depression is caused by events in a person's life and sometimes it is purely a medical condition. Try taking the self-test posted below (there are other depression screening tests available on the Internet).

Please be assured that there are people out there that love you. As far as connecting with people...well, you are doing that right now. I would suggest taking the a depression self-test and regardless of the results, see your doctor. Get a physical and tell him what you posted above. You may be suffering from a medical condition, especially if you have had these feelings for several weeks.

Good luck.

Answer 5

Perhaps you have avoidant personality disorder. People with this disorder have a deep longing for love and connection, but social situations make them extremely anxious and self-conscious, so they feel unable to get what they long for. As a result, they spend a large amount of their time alone and can have a lot of trouble with relationships and employment.

If you think this may describe you, look up avoidant personality disorder on any search engine. There is a wealth of information.

Answer 6

Being alone means you are with yourself and is a matter of choice.Being lonely is to be devoid of social interaction and is a deprivation.People go to any length to be alone,be with themselves,per sue their hobbies and other interests.Loneliness is taxing and can be painful to endure.Having understood the difference,it's now up to YOU TO WORK ON IT AND FIND A WAY OUT.TAKE CARE.

Answer 7

hmm. even if you dont want to, then just take a walk in the park or get a phsycitrist or somthing like that. smell the flowers, go to the movies or the mall with some friends and just have a good time


hope i could help

Answer 8

Everybody want to be alone for sometimes, not for long time. You can't keep you alone for a long time. So man is called social. So if you fill it for short time, that is ok. But for long time then something problem and need to go to doctor.

Answer 9

You sound like me. I pretty much alone all the time even at work, I'm the only one there. Most of the time I enjoy myself, its usually at night when I feel alone.

Answer 10

Because most of people around us always want something from us... and it's just getting so annoying.

I do feel sometimes this way... not wanting to talk to anyone. I am not sure if its normal or not... but it gives me inner peace and more time to explore myself.