The most important element in a relationship, wether it be friendship, or loving, or whatever... is TRUST. Without trust, you are not a worthy person. What good is having a girlfriend you can't trust? What good is having a friend you can't trust? How can you rely on this person to tell you the truth about anything? How can you rely on this person to hold sacred your inner-most secrets, your thoughts, your vulnerablity? Can you trust their smile? Can you trust their facial expressions? Can you trust their words? And if so, when? All the time? Some of the time? When? How will you know when they are sincere? Or, "IF" they are sincere. Do you want to stay with this kind of person? What is their worth if you can't trust them? If someone close to you is capable of "betraying" your trust, love and loyalty... then they don't deserve you. Nothing is more valuable than trust. And if you are lucky enough to find a true friend you can trust...treasure that person, they are hard to find. If you are lucky enough to find someone to love, who is true, and you can trust...treasure that person, they also are hard to find. That's my answer to you.
2007-08-18 18:26:00
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answered by Louie's Mom 1
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"Just remember, all great relationships began as a one night stand."
In other words trust only becomes necessary when you become serious about a relationship. You can have relationships without being serious and trust never becomes an issue. On the other hand, you can decide this is the one for me and that is when trust has to be there to keep your loves from dying because you are not certain if he/she is telling you the truth anymore. Here is a clue, you never know for certain if he/she is telling you the truth. That is why trust becomes more important the longer and more serious the relationship becomes.
But the trust I am talking about is your trust of him or her and not her/his trust of you. Again, you can never be certain of the truth there.
You can walk away if you want to or take a leap of faith. It is up to you.
2007-08-18 20:07:39
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answered by LORD Z 7
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I would say so...especially if the other person isn't trying to learn to trust you. I was always told that if there isn't any trust in the relationship then you don't have anything at all. You shouldn't be with someone that doesn't trust you and is constantly accusing you of doing something that you're not doing. The relationship will eventually get worse and end up ending anyway.
2007-08-18 18:03:13
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes. Without trust, there is no relationship, just lots of fighting and hurt feelings.
2007-08-18 17:59:51
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answered by Jess 7
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properly, intimacy is quite important. it quite is as much as you to settle on HOW important it quite is. from my journey and from conversing with buddies, it variety of feels that in simple terms approximately each guy or woman has some point of dissatisfaction with with their relationship, whether that's communique, dedication, too lots intercourse, not sufficient intercourse, and so on. yet for me, it quite is taken into consideration necessary to be became on and for the guy to place some attempt into this branch and not in basic terms have intercourse with you, so as that he can bypass out 3 seconds after, employing you as some variety of napping pill or something.... If conversing to him did not paintings, possibly you're able to evaluate tying him as much as the mattress and teasin the **** out of him for greater or less an hour. or possibly carry out on intercourse for a at a similar time as and overlook approximately him for a competent week or so till he brings it up and you will gently and kindly tell him the kind you sense. If he gets mad, do in simple terms not react to his emotional outburst- stay quite calm and in simple terms tell him precisely what he can do to alter. If there are deeper seeded subject concerns besides in simple terms the intercourse, possibly you're able to concentration on those and degree whether or not the relationship is worth saving. wish this permits :) sturdy success!
2016-11-12 21:21:51
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answered by ? 4
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depends , why the trust was lost . if something was done to cause them not to trust you i feel you need to earn it back. but if trust was never there without reason end it
2007-08-18 18:02:12
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes... A relationship is built on trust, honesty & loyalty.
2007-08-18 18:00:18
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes, because if you can't trust someone..you'd be paranoid all the time about what they might be doing..and that would get annoying
2007-08-18 18:00:11
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answered by ☮Witty Sarcasm♥ 7
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If there's no trust, there's no relationship.
2007-08-18 18:03:15
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes. Trust is elemental to me. If I am not trustworthy in your eyes than it will not work.
2007-08-18 17:59:53
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answered by dizzkat 7
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