why am i sensitive and get hurt and angry by how certain people talk? if someone says the words 'all the time'

Question

or the word ' again' they get me really angry and i feel like shouting at them to '' shut up''.....its also this way with clothing to, iam sensitive....if a person wears white, i hate it, if they have a white shirt on i get very annoyed and cant bear to be around them, and will do anything to get away from them....or i'll rebel and wear black or brown to oppose them...

whats causing me to be this way?

just before a person used the words '' all the time'' in her question, as part of the question, and i found myself seething in anger .....or if i here a person say 'again'' or ''all the time'' or if they wear white, ill get angry and want to oppose them, or do any thing in my power to get away from them..

why is this? is this who iam, and i should just accept it?

Answer 1

Ok, I'm going to be perfectly honest with you and you can get angry, cry, stomp, pitch a fit, whatever. That's why here at answers we have some form of anonymity.

What I think truly may be your problem and I am certainly no psychotherapist, you may have been on the receiving end of a lot of "I tell you to clean your room all the time!" or "If I tell you again and again!" AND it may just be some slight form of OCD. Obsessive Compulsive Disorder or angst of some type. I personally think you could benefit from a little, not a lot, of therapy. Just try it with a Psychotherapist and perhaps they can help you figure out the root of your "angst and anger" at these issues. As far as the white issue, I'm going to venture a guess that somewhere in your past thought processes someone in authority who really hurt you always thought of themselves as "lily white and pure" and it is this association or free association of abstract thought that is deep down in the recesses of your mind and you just don't realize its source. So, take a deep breath, count to 10 when you feel this anger, and try and find someone professional that you can really open up to and discuss all this with. I think you'll find you're ok and just have a couple of rough edges to smooth out. You'll be fine. Good luck!

Answer 2

It's a minor problem if attended now and can be handled easily.Such things happen to many people in the process of growing up and mostly vanish with time.Should that not happen,it's needs a bit of correction and a trained person can do it easily.The main thing is to accept and go ahead with correction.If we don't look after ourselves, who will?You have a life ahead and many great achievements to go for.Let such small issues not come in the way. hope you do it,no matter what anybody may say or do.wish you well.

Answer 3

Sounds like you need someone professional to talk to. Your anger issues and the fact that certain things trigger it need to be addressed. You could start with your school counselor and go from there. It's not really normal, hon, to be angered by certain words or colors of clothing. Talk with your doctor about it if your counselor can't help you out.