I'm a 19 year old guy. i split with my girlfriend recently and well have been wanting to experiment - even when i had the girlfriend. i mean like obsessively thinking about it (like not sleeping much). I'm really only interested in trying it. I've never wanted to do it on the basis of attraction just interest. I have no interest in kissing guys or having any sort of emotional relationship.
I'm set up to try it on thurs but really nervous about it. Should i try it? If i do does it mean i'm gay? does it mean i'm going to hell?
2007-08-18 17:43:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
in regards to the one night stand... i don't exactly find at moral either. But the reality is all i want to do is try it, i want to be discreet about it.... so what choice is there but to have a one nighter? On the other hand if i went into some relationship wouldn't i just be hurting the other person because i have no emotional interest?
2007-08-18 17:54:11 · update #1
No, your not going to hell, and it doesnt mean your gay. Even if it would mean your gay, you still wouldnt go to hell ^_^
Don't worry about labels, try and figure out what is right for you, not what is right for everyone else.
You are your own person, and what appeals to you is your own.
2007-08-18 17:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anthony P. 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should go for it, otherwise you're going to keep wondering about it and it might screw up the next relationship you have. We often have to try many different things before we find the one we want and there's nothing wrong with that. And if you try it and you're able to keep your emotions out of it, it means you aren't gay. As for hell, I don't believe in it but I should think those that do would believe that as long as you're not hurting anyone, it's fine. Besides there's nothing wrong with being gay, it's just a different lifestyle that's all. Anyway hope that you find the answers you're looking for.
2007-08-19 00:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're never going to be at peace until you do try it. Experimenting does not make you gay, and even if you are, you are not going to hell
2007-08-19 02:46:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't mean that you are going to hell. There's nothing wrong with being gay or bi. However, random sex for the sake of just having sex is morally questionable. And, yes, if you are sexually attracted to men, then yes you are gay or bisexual.
2007-08-19 00:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by Zaggy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh pls dont change into gay lol
u r just bicurious it wil only stay for like about a month
then ur emotions willl expire
trust me
just try to control ur self for about a month
bicurious happens to everybody and its completely normal ya
so lol pls dnt change into a gay
and bythe way hu said gays go to hell lol??
its hilarious lol
2007-08-19 00:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by oOo_tophothari_oOo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't know until you try whether you're straight, gay, or bi. but i personally don't believe that your sexual preference determines where you spend your afterlife, just make sure the guy is someone you trust and use protection if it goes as far as sex
2007-08-19 00:48:46 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not going to hell. Not in the least. You aren't necessarily gay. You're what is known as bi-curious.
If I were you, I would try it. It may give you a better sense of who you are and who you want to be with.
Best of luck to you!
2007-08-19 00:47:08 · answer #7 · answered by Matt 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I personally don't think the "one night stand" is very respectable. If you're not gay then why would you want to do it? Sex is something that should be saved for someone you really care about.
2007-08-19 00:46:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's your life, however I must say that having a one-night-stand with someone you know you will have no connection with seems wrong and dishonest and as someone said earlier morally questionable. Please think before doing this (whether with a male or female)
2007-08-19 00:50:13 · answer #9 · answered by Greg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wont go to Hell for being curious. Plenty of people are gay, and thats just fine.
2007-08-19 00:59:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋