Alright, well I was just wondering if theres was a way to tell if someone was into other chicks. I knows theres really nothing solid until you actually ask them. But I really dig this girl I know, and I always feel like shes flirting with me and we just kind of click. I could just be getting flirting messed up with her just being friendly, but I don't know, and I'm starting to fall for her. Any help would be great, and I know theres other questions that have been asked like this, but the answers on those didn't really help. So if you could, let me know what you think.
2007-08-18 14:56:44 · 14 answers · asked by Halinator 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Thanks, I'll try the compliment and movie and dinner thing, hell I may even just ask.
I'd do the drink, except I'm not old enough.
2007-08-18 15:12:24 · update #1
well... we were in her car today and she brought up the subject of gays. she didn't say she had a problem with it she said that she didn't like them, because most of them are prettier than her, she was definately kidding around though. So, i'm still not sure, she may have been trying to get me to open up. who knows...
Besides that she has a boyfriend, i guess i'm just going to talk to her about it when she calls.
2007-08-20 09:49:34 · update #2
nevermind and excuse the term, but i definately think shes a homophobe.
2007-08-24 15:38:03 · update #3
I have this same problem. I don't go to gay bars b/c I'm bi. Not gay. I just giggle and ask if the girl is flirting. It sounds like a joke if she isnt and if she is...then I see where it could go.
2007-08-18 15:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by Carrie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all you should make sure she knows you are a lesbian. If she does, show her some friendly touching gestures such as putting your hand on her leg after a joke or hitting her playfully. If she doesn't pull away or flinch, she probably isn't homophobic. If she does flinch, don't touch her again and reevalute the friendship.
It is often hard to bluntly tell someone you are interested so write her a letter and tell her if she is not interested don't ever bring up the subject again and neither will you. Hey it has worked for me with so many of my "straight" friends.
2007-08-26 01:36:08 · answer #2 · answered by shethang 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Two ideas:
1) Does she have perfect posture? Usually only straight chicks have perfect posture.
2) Let her know really casually that you're into girls, not necessarily her, and then see what her reaction is. That's a good way of breaking just a bit of the ice before you make a move.
2007-08-18 22:21:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well, I know how you fell cause of me and my current. Sometimes you just have to ask or flirt and also you can strike up conversations about it or ask her opinion on Lebians and that may help....only one way to find out is to go for it.
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2007-08-18 22:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by slowgo91 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out on a date. You don't have to call it a date. Mabey dinner and a movie. Flirt back. Unless she's straight, uninterested, or a robot, you'll get your answer :) Good Luck!
2007-08-18 22:04:06 · answer #5 · answered by Zaggy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It really depends on what kind of stuff she does when she is around you like if she real touchy and things like that then maybe she wants you so I say you should bring up the topic and try to ask her.
2007-08-24 09:47:56 · answer #6 · answered by Fatty 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give her the best compliment you can next time around and see how she takes it. If she begins to flirt then I would think she is interested. GOOD-LUCK(^_^)KAY
2007-08-18 22:07:52 · answer #7 · answered by kay b 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if shes flirts then there is a chance that shes into girls. Ask her have she ever kissed a girl or if she ever dated a girl or ssked her if she would ever date a girl.
2007-08-18 22:05:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you have to up the flirting on your end , then scrutenize her reaction . If all else fails , give her a book of sappho love sonnets .
2007-08-19 20:52:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
flirt back and see what happens. ask her to have a drink with you, friendly like and see what happens...good luck
2007-08-18 22:05:18 · answer #10 · answered by Movinonup 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋