Ok, so I have a friend that aways tries to make me feel bad and makes me feel like I can't do anything right. She keps trying to put me down everyday. Like just to make my day bad , she comes up to me straight in the morning and goes "Are you alright? You seem sad." even when there's nothing wrong.
Not much of a friend , eh?
so, what should I do?
2007-08-18 14:46:21 · 6 answers · asked by aRChIE! :] 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Anyone who treats you like that is not your friend! I would just come right out and ask her why she does these things (it might just be her personality & she doesn't even know she's doing it)! Then if she doesn't have a good explanation for her actions...I would just tell her how it makes you feel & that if things don't change, that you no longer want to be her friend! Period!!! There are plenty of other people out there that will treat you the way a true friend should...don't worry I know you will find them & realize what a real friend is all about! They will never do or say the things this girl has been! Good luck sweetie! I'm rooting for ya! =D
2007-08-18 15:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by F-1 says KISS IT! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my experiences, have found people like this, are very unhappy and they want you to be unhappy like them.
I have a neighbor that's similar.
Am not someone to be dumped on, picked at, criticized or picked on.
True friends are supportive of each other in good/bad times alike, not jealous of what the other may have.
The neighbor I'm speaking of runs with another neighbor and they compete to see who buys the latest items first (keeping up with the Jones) I call that-heading to bankruptcy court. Not my style. By asking you why you look sad, when you apparently are not, she may be looking for info to gossip about. Just smile big and walk away.
2007-08-18 20:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by kriend 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 02:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I no longer have him as a friend. There comes a time when, after being nice for a long time, ya gotta jus' say, "Piss off" and mean it.
2007-08-18 14:53:55 · answer #4 · answered by Sarrafzedehkhoee 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a new friend. Friends are suppose to be positive influences, not put you down.
2007-08-18 15:07:25 · answer #5 · answered by Delicious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not really, but I had a friend who was really competitive and would always try to one-up me. I don't think that she was necessarily trying to make me feel bad as much as I think she was just trying to make herself feel better- does that make sense? I dunno, maybe that's what your friend is doing. Making you feel bad without realizing it.
2007-08-18 14:54:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋