The Whole Concept Of Being A Couple...That It Is Better To Be Together...Than To Be Alone?

Question

**Is The Whole...

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Answer 1

That is untrue!
I have been married for almost 34 years and I am not part of a couple! We have a piece of paper stating we are a couple! I am just as alone as someone who isn't part of a 'couple'!

Answer 2

I'm a rescuer personality. I "need" to have a person that is reliant on my support, my wisdom, my character. It doesn't matter that she is more intelligent than I. Makes more money than I. Is prettier than I. lol..... Sorry, I was salivating there for a second. The fact that my strengths are her weaknesses, or even that my strengths are just slightly better. As long as I have the feeling that I am of worth. Even if it is just giving that feeling of worth to my better half! Personally I am to the point that I "need" to be part of a team. If my wife would pass away (God forbid) I don't know if I could continue without someone to reach out to me for support. I have thought that I would never get romantically involved again, but, who knows, maybe I've been a couple so long, I know no other way.

Answer 3

the Concept Couple implies Two...

each man, woman is incomplete in himself, herself until fulfilled .. and it starts with Physical craving... But that is momentary..
These craving comes from inside and the fulfilment also lyes within.. .. until coupling is done from within no Real Coupling happens.. so One has tobe Alone to realize his her better half from within ..
Outside half comes, meets for a moment and goes, may be he is in home, office or on line but he remains The Other... and can not be Self.. so to be Alone and find the Couple within is not Better but The Best...

This is how Spiritual masters have been enjoying singularly yet wtih couples 24 x 7 x 365 .. Unending Orgasm

Answer 4

that is not necessarily true, some people are meant to b alone and can't get along 1 on 1 with any one. MY brother is like that and then there r people who can't live alone, my other brother is like that. Me i can do either and b happy , right now i am in a very commited relationship and i am happy than a pig in s**t on a rainy day

Answer 5

Mmmmuuuuuuch better to be alone. Much.

Answer 6

Do you mean aside form the sex?

That is a major attraction.

But you want the whole concept.

I am making this up as I go so let's see.

While we are being born we are inside another person feeling their emotions and enjoying that connection of being one with another person.

Then we get kicked out of our comfy womb and are slapped on the backside to give us a clue that something in life are cold and painful.

The next thing you know we are wrapped in a pink or a blue blanket signifying that we are packing a fishing pole or packing the bait.

From that day forward the world tries to keep us from fishing for that oneness we used to enjoy so much.

We wind up grasping to our parents, male to female, female to male, looking for the comfort we wished we still had. It is odd because you would assume both girls and boys would stay attracted to their mother but in only a short time that changes. Daughters cling to their fathers and sons to their mothers.

Until the kids start to socialize and then it goes back to the girls with the mothers and the boys with the men. I blame that on separate bathrooms and toys. At that age children are taught that they are different but not how they are different. The biggest clue they are given is dolls. Dolls in general have no genitals so fishing is out of the question.

Girls spend more time with dolls, especially Barbie, dressed in her pink, living in her pink world, dressing Ken and treating him like he is her little love slave.

Boys on the other hand get their GI Joe with the kunfu grip and have him kick up on Skeletor with his power staff. You will notice action figures have no clothes to take on or off anymore. Boys don't need to be reminded that what they see is not all there is.

This is about the time fathers tae their sons out hunting and fish and show them the joys of catching their prey.

Meanwhile in school kids are being told that they have kooties another term for crab lice which they don't have but the idea is the same boys should avoid girls and girls should avoid boys. If the actually knew what kooties were i don't know how children at this age would react.

Next, somebody gets cable or moves to Europe and returns or catches their parents out fishing and suddenly the truth begins to come out that parents don't want their children having sex. (Are you writing all this down because their will be a test later?)

Now, boys start right off trying to bait their hooks while girls thinking that boys are just oversized Ken dolls try and manipulate them into being their willing love slaves, and boys not being true fishermen at this age wind up being hooked themselves wasting years casting and recasting their lines to see if anything bites.

And so the battle begins to see who will win, the fisherman or the Barbie. If the fiserman wins then odds are Barbie will end up pregnant and with two or three skippers in her mobile Dream home in some trailer park somewhere. If barbie wins they the Fisherman will do a lot of fly fishing or maybe some catch and release, but no deep sea or game fishing until they are married and Barbie is able to get the deluxe dream cottage with swimming pool, a corvette andlots of closet room so she can dress Ken in his plaid shirts, khaki pants and tasseled loafers.

I thought I had explained this before but the fisherman will always presume that he is going to catch his limit while Barbie is always sure that she is in controle of the relationship.

He is thinking sex and she is thinking love. They are both thinking this could all work out.

Sadly, what they will find out is that misery breeds company. Pretty soon they only hang out with couples like themselves. And when they have children the number of couples like themselves dwindles down.

Years will pass before they realize that they are doing to their children what their parents did to them, keeping pink away from blue and GI Joe away from Barbie long enough so that they don't go on any early fishing expedtitions and bring home some flounders for their parents to have to take care of.

So you are asking yourself what does this have to do with a couple being better than a single, and I will tellyou nothing, but; I wanted a bigger audience and sex sells.

The truth is that somewhere in all of us we remember that feeling of oneness, that feeling that we can be close with another person, share their thoughts and their desires and let them share ours, trust us as we trust them, be open and honest with one another and care deeply for the person we think the other person is while never forgetting who we are and how much better we can be if in this one person we can find just an inkling of whatever purpose there is to life, to love, to being. Corny as this sounds, the simplest answer is "Because it is." If it weren't and quite often it is not, you stop being a couple and go back to being a singel once more.

...and then there is the sex.

(You can put down your pencils now and stop writing. Your tests are out there waiting for you if you are just willing to go fishing or perhaps find a Ken of your own.)

Answer 7

Depends entirely on the person.

And personally, I think women are nuts.

-Aztec276

Answer 8

Either way is good as long as the person is happy

Answer 9

wrong!

it only applies if the couple is truly in love with each other.

Answer 10

it is better to be a couple. but, even better to be a couple that is one. =)