hi.. i havent seen or heard from my ex boyfriend in 2 months...last night i went to some lounge by me with my friend and i saw my ex kissing some girl...im not going to lie, even though i moved on, it did bother me a bit...after he hooked up with her he was by the bar by himself so i went up to him and said hi and we started talking...after that i saw some guy who i knew and we started talking (thats all, i didnt hook up with him or anything)...i saw my ex staring at us that he even came up to me while i was talking to the other guy...after that i walked out with my friend and that guy and his friend and i kno my ex saw it bc he tried getting my attention..then he calls me and leaves a message on my voicemail saying "i want you" but ur with another guy".. i get a call from him the next day apologizing to me if he said anything bad the night before cause he was drunk. then he asked me how i been? and what ive been up to? i mean seriously what does he want from me??
2007-08-18 11:07:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
lol, wow.
do you even like your ex?
yeah, sorry for answering this even though I'm not a guy.
btw, I agree with the 2 guys above.
2007-08-18 11:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by hello, world 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It soundslike he wants to hook back up. The more important question though is what do you want from him? You guys broke up so I assume that you didn't mesh. If it was an imaturity issue on your part that you grew out of and he is a great guy then pursue a friendship and see what happens. The only problem is that it will be harder to stay just friends with romantic a past so gaurd yourself well. Also he sounds a little needy and insecure, if thats the case you don't need it and move on. I've been that guy and it's not pretty!
2007-08-18 18:18:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on the information you've provided, I can only tell you this much...
A man's true emotions pour out when he is drunk. True that he was kissing another girl, but men will always remain men. He wants you... and a few others! Mind me saying so even, but he is definitely not thinking with the brain in his head!
Avoid him for a while. It will definitely pinch you to see him with another girl one moment and then asking for you back the next. Play safe and remain aloof. You broke off for some definite reason which is not so difficult to read into.
Meet up with friends, go out, enjoy life... Experience what life has to offer before committing yourself to one person.
;-) Take care.
2007-08-18 18:44:29 · answer #3 · answered by craigalias20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants one last romp. He got with someone else to try and prove that he's a catch and that you're the one who screwed up. Then when he saw you with another guy, he didn't want to see that you moved on. Not only that, but guys tend to fantasize about women they can't have. When he was with you, I guarantee he thought about other women. So now that he's not with you and he can't have you, he thinks about you. He'll move on eventually.
2007-08-18 18:14:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave it, he is over. move on and just politely say no.
He can't get that he has no control over you anymore.
It feels frustrating to him I would guess.
Not saying he is trying to rape you, but he is not looking out for YOUR best interests, as he should,
It is not you or me, but WE that makes a relationship.
The one on the other, the other on the one.
Neither on themselves more then the other.
(not ALL on the other..you still eat even if the other wants seconds, for a blunt and obvious example, but follow that thought to other things. More to the other then to the self.)
Reft~
2007-08-18 18:17:08 · answer #5 · answered by Reft 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I`d walk away from this situation, he`s an X for a reason dont forget, think about why he`s a X?
2007-08-18 18:18:23 · answer #6 · answered by KatsLoveBug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ever he wants, or needs ,
do you think it will work ,this time around?
you said you have moved on . then move on ,
and don't wait for him to catch u p
i wish you the best ,
2007-08-18 18:18:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just testing you out, seeing if you're still hung up on him. It's an ego thing.
2007-08-18 18:24:12 · answer #8 · answered by Margastar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does he want from you?
Whatever he can get.
Keep moving on !
2007-08-18 18:16:50 · answer #9 · answered by Bob L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be unattached,
it sounds like he's just out a mongering
2007-08-18 18:27:40 · answer #10 · answered by Silly BaBy505 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋