I recently had a breast augmention that he assisted me financially with, but he wants me to not show them off as much....My point is why did I get them then?
2007-08-18 10:30:07 · 16 answers · asked by Jill L 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How are you showing them? Bikini top? Tank top? Or are you just pulling your shirt up and literally showing them? I wouldn't mind my wife showing them off with little tops or whatever but wouldn't be as crazy about lifting her shirt up and showing them to whoever.
2007-08-19 10:49:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this, but God help your hubby if you decide to get implants put into your backside....lol
only joking.
Seriously hun, you've got them now, it's a little late for all this. I feel these implants cause more trouble than they're supposed to fix. Many couples actually end up falling apart rather than pulling closer together once these things enter the equation.
Why oh why do we cut our bodies up in order to make ourselves feel something special.
The fact is, guys like breasts, I like breasts, no matter what size, we're all kinda fixated with the damned things.
When will we women (& men) learn that relationships based on nothing but the physical will not last.
Women end up feeling cheap & only sought after for one thing, while men feel, well, just cheated I guess.
Perhaps it's not the showing em off he has a problem with, perhaps it goes' deeper than that.
Whether he helped to pay for them or not, they're in your body, they're now yours. You may find yourself choosing between him & a blob of silicone one day though, I hope not.
But I can assure you, you're not the first & won't be the last.
2007-08-18 12:13:01 · answer #2 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's "funny" that everyone thinks you need their opinion on breast augmentation. The way I read your question, you aren't asking for their approval of your decision to have the surgery. (Good for you!) You had your own personal reasons for deciding to enlarge your breasts.
Now down to the answer to your question. You don't say how much you want to show them off. A sexy bathing suit? A low cut top? Or do you think wearing something sheer with no bra is sexy? If he helped me financially, and if he is a good partner, I think I would take his opinion into serious consideration. If he wants you to wear a turtle neck on 100 degree days, then I'd say he should compromise!
Come to an agreement/compromise on this issue, don't let it ruin your relationship!
2007-08-18 11:10:27 · answer #3 · answered by Maggie Mae 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
He obviously doesnt want u to flaunt them. You have them so be proud of them. Dont show them off all the time, but maybe just when the two of you will be together. You shouldnt have to do what he says but you should also consider his feelings. Im sure you can reach a compromise......maybe he thinks that you are so freakin hot now that someone might try to steal you from him,
2007-08-18 13:21:26 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women with small breasts need love too. Augmentations are totally cosmetic in nature.
I would look at it this way. You guys can look but she's goin' home to bed with me so eat your hearts out gentlemen.
I know that sounds a little braggardish, but hey, why DID you get them enlarged for in the first place?
Not everyone can be Pamela Anderson.
2007-08-18 10:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by David T 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I thought augmentations were done to make a woman feel good about herself, to have more self esteem. God bless ya for wanting to show the twins off, but there's a fine line about how open minded some men are. Personally, I'd be proud as hell, but it sounds like he might be a little jealous or threatened. The old saying "A lady in public, a slut in the bedroom" comes to mind. If you care for him, you should at least respect his feelings and dress in an agreeable fashion.
2007-08-18 11:03:17 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
No clue, Probably because you are insecure and had no self esteem.
I still dont understand why this is sucha big issue with women. Dont get me wrong I like women and Breast, but it just seems to me like their is no diversity. Now when I see a "natural" woman I think whe is much more beautiful than the plastic ones.
The same thing goes for the back tatoo. It was kinda sexy at first, but now its just sooo over done that I find myself attracted to women who dont have them, and just think that the women with them are kinda slutty. JMO
2007-08-18 10:41:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
At the end of the day, if he's not going to realise that it might garner some more male attention he's not got his head screwed on right. Obviously, I wouldn't go out wearing the bare minimal, but perhaps gradually wear looser and looser tops that show them off more over time. So you can both get used to them.
2007-08-18 10:39:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Because your husband should be the only male seeing your breasts. Trust me, women who get an accidental look at them are repulsed. They don't look real, and it's disgusting. Let him enlarge his private area and show it off to others. And no complaining from you if he does it. And if it's your body, then you should have paid for it yourself. You'd get more say in what you do had you paid for it yourself. So those implants are part his.
2007-08-18 10:35:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
a little late asking that question isnt it, as far as what u wear, if you love ur boyfriend, why do u want to let everyone else see what u have
2007-08-18 10:38:28 · answer #10 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋