My boyfreind just broke up with me and we never got around to having sexbecause we never had the chance!! I really don't feel like going out and screwing everybody that walks like some people! I'm 16 and every other person that's Gay at my age isn't a Virgin anymore!! I am so embarrassed !! I don't want to meet a guy and tell him that I'm a Virgin if he's not.. :( He will probably laugh at me or think that I'm a Loser!
Should I just stay a Virgin forever or something??
2007-08-18 09:53:17 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Oh yeah and if I've done everything but anal sex.. am I still a Virgin?
2007-08-18 10:16:48 · update #1
I am still a virgin. I have a boyfriend but we have not had full-on sex. We have had foreplay but nothing more. I am 22 and want to wait until I am sure that the guy I am with will be with me for awhile. I do feel love and all that but I worry that it will all be over and not worth having given up my virginity for. I think its great that there are other guys out there who are virgins too.
2007-08-18 10:01:19 · answer #1 · answered by realangst 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No you should not be a virgin forever if you don't whant to. I mean I'm a girl, I'm almost 14, I'm gay and still a virgin, but I got a friend named Angel who is also gay, he's 19 going to be 20, and until 2 months ago he was still a virgin. He's never done it with any of his boyfriends untill he met Dash. Dash is Angel's boyfriend and is the same age a him and he was also a virgin tell they had sex. So it's not a big deal if your 16 and stil a virgin cause their are lot's of people out there that are still virgins and they are older then you. Also it's ok if you tell a guy your a virgin cause 6 out of 10 say that he wount mind. Latter and good luck.^--^
2007-08-18 17:16:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
If every 16 year old who claimed not to be a virgin really had had sex, the STD rate would be through the roof. You are NOT the only teenaged virgin - trust me.
Furthermore, sex just for sex's sake is DUMB. There are way too many diseases and too much emotional issues to deal with to take it lightly.
Lighten up on yourself. And take your time. Do it when it's right for you, and not a day before.
And I don't know ANYONE who has been laughed at for being a virgin - that should be the least of your worries.
2007-08-18 17:03:01 · answer #3 · answered by Clint 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Well, while not homosexual, I did not lose my virginity until I was 21. I know I am not alone in that fact. I may be in a smaller minoirty but not alone. So, I would say that works on all sides of the sexuality spectrum. Also, if it works the same with homosexuality as it does with heterosexuality, the person will not see you as a loser. You will be looked at as an honor/prize to be the one to take the virginity.
2007-08-18 16:59:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Is it really a big deal to be a virgin?
The "right" guy will eventually come along.
There is no need to be embarrassed.... Be embarrassed if you are 80 and still a virgin. But not at 16!
2007-08-18 16:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Lol! I just gotta laugh at this. And no, you're not the only one. I have some gay friends that are 18 and they're still a virgin. I'm 15 and I'm still a virgin. XD
2007-08-18 17:35:05 · answer #6 · answered by Blood Angel 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm a 17 y/o virgin who also happens to be a lesbian.
So no. You aren't alone in that boat of yours. I'm weeping right next to you. *weep*
As for whether or not you're a virgin if you've done everything but anal, it differs person to person. I would consider you a virgin until you've gone all the way, but that's just me.
2007-08-18 22:44:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish all you kids could stop doing things because "everybody" else is. That's never true, for one thing. It's a pretty trivial reason to have sex, too.
You will do that when the time is right for you. Don't get brainwashed into anything else, okay?
Also, if somebody would laugh at your inexperience, would you want to be with such a jerk at all?
2007-08-18 17:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by juditurc 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'm 15 and a virgin.
Don't stay a virgin forever. Don't give up. You'll find someone, and be happy you waited, you are protecting yourself from all types of STDs out there =]
2007-08-18 17:36:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
im 19 and im a virgin so what ..being a virgin doesnt mean ur ugly or a loser or anything ...if u wanna lose ur virginty u lose it when u r really committed with ur partner and u have been together for a while ..coz u only lose it once ..and ur only 16 u have ur whole life ahead of u
i didnt lose mine till now coz i didnt find some1 that really worth it
2007-08-18 17:05:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋