Is it your similarities or your differences that attract you to your mate?

Question

Or both and why?

Answer 1

both,,, i really don't know,.,,, all i know is that i love him sooooooooo much,,, ;)

Answer 2

Well i don't think so because people who do relate seems not to have the same similarities or differences but i think people who relate seems to have loving affectionate for each other and also a good seen of armour and behaviour, character and so on. This attract one to each other or a fellow to his mate. People may be rich enough but alongside also have some friends which you know are little bit lower than him but seems to have attraction for each other even with such differences. Furthermore some white also have friendship with other tribes so is the other tribes also have some cordial relationships with some white with these similarities differences it count not. If to me these things is to be put into practise then i think is racism and should'nt be practise in any place you know it is not fair for as not to relate to each other thats all for me.

Answer 3

I think both of our similarities and differences attract. We like alot of the same things but at the same time we like a lot of different things. I also like to learn about the things that he likes that I never thought I would like and I come to find out I do like em. We also think alot alike so I sometimes know what hes thinking or feeling. Not all the time though!

Answer 4

a bit of both I think.

I think because we have so many differences we learn more from each other which makes everyday interesting.

The similarities we have allow us to be on the same wavelength when it comes to raising our children.

We have been together 12 years and neither of us feels the need to get married, and we rarely have arguements due to our willingness to listen to the other's point of view.

Answer 5

It's a little of both. Where we are similar to each other, we grow on the already strong bonds that exist in those areas. Where there are differences, we complete each other and thus grow stronger there as well

Answer 6

Absolutely both. After 38 years, we share many things in common, even little habits like alternating "make the coffee days." She's still the intro, cautious, reserved one though and I'm not. It is my belief that to stick it out, you must be committed to the marriage even more than the person. After this long, there are many benefits you don't think of when you're younger. We are of the age that we begin to think about life without one of us, so we try even harder to make each day special. peace

Answer 7

A bit of both. I believe that your zodiac sign may influence certain characteristics in the other, and we are both Tauruses, so I do believe that has a lot to do with it. Sometimes, the things I love about him are the traits I find the most positive in myself. But sometimes, his stubbornness which is a trait I love/hate in myself) can get on my nerves.

Answer 8

I find I miss the similarities.....common interest the most.....or did they start out as differences and become common interests? Not sure now.....

So in answer.......I'd say a healthy dose of both.......we all need common interests, but also challenges and room for growth, apart and as a couple

Hey sweet lady!

Answer 9

A little bit of both. I love knowing that we share a lot in common, but the differences are what make it a lot better

Answer 10

I would say both. We have so much in common in the way we think and our taste in everything, clothes, homes, colors (for paint when we moved in together). But then our interests are different, I'm an artist he's a musician. He likes science I can't stand it because I don't understand it, so he explains it to me in the dumb way. I like reading, he hates it but he likes to write. So we pretty much complete eachother. He's my soulmate!!

Answer 11

It's been said, opposites attract, I have lived to believe this is so, Some how they seem to compliment each other, Liken to, Two heads are better then one, I have also heard, one picks a
mate, of which ever parent had the stronger personility.