the comdom broke and as a result i'm pregant i would love more kids (have one son) but my boyfriend doesn't want anymore kids thats why we use comdoms also because the pills make me sick and i couldn't use the iud. i know that he would probly ask me to abort it but i KNOW that i wouldn't do that do i dump him the spring it on him your a father again or i just pray he chages his mind and love this baby as he loves our son..
2007-08-18 08:29:46 · 18 answers · asked by lady l 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You should tell him, it's his child too. He cannot force you to abort your child, but you owe him the truth.
2007-08-18 08:34:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay so here is the thing you have to tell him because eventually he is going to find out anyway and he should have to deal with this too you didn't make a baby on your own...Just tell him how you feel tell him you are pregnant and refuse to abort and that's the way its going to be if he doesn't want anymore kids he should get a vasectomy or quit having sex he should know condoms do break and every time he uses them there is a chance (like right now) that you could end up pregnant good luck!!
2007-08-18 08:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by bellababi44 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abortion is not a good thing. Especially when you want the baby... I think if you ended up doing that, you will hate yourself. I would just talk to him and tell him how you feel. If he really loved you, he wouldn't make you do something that you were against doing. If you both decide that the child would be better off, there is always adoption!!! I was adopted and I am so thankful to my birth-mom for making that choice.
2007-08-18 08:37:21 · answer #3 · answered by l.o.v.e. .l.i.f.e. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say to tell him, since half of him is growing inside you, great choice on choosing not to abort the baby, I feel it would be something you would've regreted, too bad if he doesnt want anymore kids, condoms are not the best b/c method but if thats all you use and your pregnant, he needs to deal with it, it's a choice to be made by you since it is growing inside of you, him not wanting any more children is irelivent (sp?) right now, tell the truth let him know your choice and work it out, congrats!
2007-08-18 08:45:04 · answer #4 · answered by ☆Leanne☆ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me Honey. Dont go killing your child because some man doesn't want any kid. What if his or even your mom had aborted you? Life is good, give the kid a chance to enjoy life too. It might not be easy but pray to God about the whole situation and I promise you that he will come through for you....TRUST ME!!! If that guy doesn't want the kid then leave him and move on with your life and pray and ask God for the right man. Listen to me, nothing is impossible when it comes to God. Have faith and I promise if you want, I'll pray for you too. Its simple mami. Dont worry bout it.
2007-08-18 08:40:52 · answer #5 · answered by kediesha m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok .. Id hate to sound like dr.phil here but the most important thing in this whole messed up equation is this unborn child. The question you should be asking is what will i do with this babie? Should i keep it? Should i have it and give it up for adoption? Should i forget my sexuality and get with my man for the sake of this baby? Should i have a baby to a mentaly unstable man? I think the least of your problems is your sudden decision to become a lesbian think about whats most important and what would be best for the baby, thats whats fair!!
2016-05-22 04:32:13 · answer #6 · answered by flora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him whether he respects you and cares about what you want as well. Then tell him you are pregnant and want the baby. If he disapproves, you have no choice but make a decision yourself - leave him or save the relationship.
2007-08-18 08:41:21 · answer #7 · answered by Lona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definetely talk about that with him.You can't wait for you to start showing cause that will make things worse.It's not your fault that the condom broke and he surely can't force you to abort the child if you don't want to.A conversation will make him see things differently I think.
I hope everything will be fine for you.Good luck
2007-08-18 08:35:48 · answer #8 · answered by alexia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you need to sit him down and tell him calmly and hopefully he will take it better than you think. If he wants you to abort then you should tell him how you feel about that and if he does not respect that, then try to make him understand and if he doesn't understand then..I guess it's not going to work out. Congratz on your new baby :)
2007-08-18 08:39:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it's your body and you can keep the baby no matter what he wants. You should tell him and be firm that you are keeping the baby, if he doesn't like it OH WELL! He does have the right to know though.
2007-08-18 08:36:43 · answer #10 · answered by BeThAnY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋