What if you can't be with the one you love?

Answer 1

Talk to her on the telephone everyday.--The story of my life.

My gf is waiting for her visa.

Answer 2

Depends on the situation. Is he outa town for a business trip? Moved away? You split up because of an argument? What was going on before the split? It also depends on where you want this to go too. Is this a one-sided relationship? Even friends need to know their are both on the same boat before setting off. If you can't be with the one you love then try to find answers to these basic scenes..what ifs, what abouts and what did really take place last time you were together. You might have to deal with the reality factor that he has moved on and got another life with someone else and you'll have to handle it the way it is. But if you want to know the truth then where there is a will there is a way..keep your chin up, it might be a blessing in disguise. 'Love the one you're with' is also a good remedy for moving on and letting go. If you find out he doesn't want to be with you then that is what it is. It doesn't mean he doesn't think of you or thinks badly of you - you were not the person he thought he wanted then its time to move on...again, you'll have to talk to him about such things to really know.

Answer 3

It doesn't really matter whether you are physical together or not. The most important thing is TRUST.

If both trust each other, you can continue to nourish and cultivate the relationship.

However, 99.99% of long distance relationship fails so it takes a lot of prayer for both of you not to fall into temptation especially if you are already married.

If you are still both single, better think twice before you separate because distance won't make the heart grow fonder but most likely it would make the heart look for another.

Answer 4

I am presently not with the one I love. His business takes him out of my sight most of the time. But it doesn't bother me a bit, even if I know he plays around a lot. I am also busy with my own business so that sort of cancel out the missing you part. I am happy with my situation, I have my grandchildren to entertain me and my children who loves me dearly. You know, when one gets older, one can sustain a life of solitude. At least it prepares me for the day when I am all on my own. The only consolation I get from my absentee husband is the coming home part.

Answer 5

Then you just have to accept it and move on. That, or you could try to get with the one you love (assuming there's no hard feelings from a previous relationship or something of the sort). Go with what your gut tells you to do. [:

Answer 6

I am away from my wife 4 months at a time and I am doing very good with my self control. I have no desire to be intimate with another woman because I am really in Love.
If I became a widow, I do not think I would find another lover because it would be hard for me to move on.
It would not be good for me to be in another relationship because I can not stop grieving the loss of my lover.
I would not want to replace the passion with someone else.

Answer 7

John Denver said: "it's the same old sun up in the sky" huhuhuhuhu waaaaahhhhh!

Answer 8

that means sacrifice. there are lots of reasons why you cant be with the one you love. love will find a way!

Answer 9

I'll find a way to be with him the same as the effort he's doing to be with me atleast one weekend with lots and lots of love per month to be with me....

Answer 10

Love the one you're with.

Answer 11

Love the one you're with.