I can't have an orgasm during intercourse but I can have an orgasm in other ways. Is this weird, it doesn't bother me b/c I'm still having orgasms but I'm just wondering if it's weird? Anyone else have this problem?
2007-08-18 06:39:57 · 24 answers · asked by Mo 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I'd like to add that the sex is good and we have tried several different positions.
2007-08-18 06:46:40 · update #1
I am not married but in a serious relationship with the same person for 2.5 yrs. This does not bother him that I can't orgasm during intercourse b/c he can make me orgasm in other ways. I don't need a bigger cock just wondering if anyone else has this problem and how common it is? I appreciate all the mature answer from people.
2007-08-18 06:53:22 · update #2
Sex should be like a road trip,....it's not just about the destination; enjoy the journey, too. I've been with the same guy for over 20 years (married for the past 8 years). Sometimes I climax before, during, or afterwards,...doesn't matter how it happened. What mattered was the fun in getting there.
2007-08-18 08:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by wingwriter 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're having an orgasm for the period of intercourse. only no longer an earth-shattering one. You pronounced you get to the place it 'sounds like i might have one... sperm in trouble-free terms shoots out.' it incredibly is it. Sorry to break the information. you're too familiar with orgasms from masturbation, so your physique is familiar with the drill interior out. With intercourse, this is like it has to relearn over again, and due to this you're no longer having lots achievement. concentration on your companion and giving the only right intercourse you could - i.e. completely concentration on *their* desires, pleasuring to the only right and maximum you could earlier entering. Then once you do your penis ought to be in degree 4 of arousal - warm! you will have not have been given any subject with orgasm after that.
2016-10-10 11:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not weird at all! I have the same problem as yourself and have done a little research into it. Apparently the majority of women dont orgasm through intercourse alone. As long as you enjoy it thats the main thing! Dont get too annoyed over it!
2007-08-18 06:49:57 · answer #3 · answered by laura m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not weird at all, but rather normal. Women really don't have much in the way of sex drives, and I don't really think that it's normal for them to have orgasms at all. In fact, most of them are faked and women feel like they need to pretend to enjoy sex, which if the truth was known, they'd rather be watching TV or even doing other chores.
Now, I do understand that we have a host of liberals on here who will undoubtedly disagree and be offended by this, as well as some stupid men who don't want to believe it and want to believe that they are capable, skilled lovers.
If women were really into sex, there would be a whole larger profession of men prositutes and the population of the world would be so large that most of the land space on Earth would be occupied.
2007-08-18 06:43:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I believe that to answer your question, Dr. RU4REAL? is gonna need to do a thorough and professional examination of this problem...
I highly suspect the problem may be caused by "external" factors...(in many cases such as yours, it could be the syndrome is present only in your signigicant other...and thus...
You suffer from "No-Orgasm-During-Intercourse" Syndrome...(NODIS)...
Here's my card...I can fit you in for an appointment next Friday Night...this kind of thing can be very serious, and you'll want to make sure you make appointment...
Sincerely, Dr. RU4REAL? (Accredited by the American Orgasm Association...AOA...)
2007-08-18 06:50:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is totally normal. Most women can only have organsms during foreplay. Most women have a hard time having them during normal intercourse. I would recommend tyring a sex position where your bf can also stimulate your clit at the same time. Like doggy style or spooning. (where the guy spoons the girl and has sex in that position) That way you can sort of be having sex and foreplay at the same time. :o)
2007-08-18 07:38:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think girls cant orgasm during sex because they just cant relax enough ! my suggestion is have a couple of drinks before the act and you will do just fine!
2007-08-18 06:47:42 · answer #7 · answered by fatgirlagain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhm, I'm wondering what the other ways are.
but its fairly common.
The best I can say is just relax, enjoy intercourse for what it is, and don't think about it while having intercourse.
sometimes the more you think the more nervous you get about it making it hard to O.
maybe your mates not doing things right.
2007-08-18 06:46:39 · answer #8 · answered by Mercury 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm wow mayb u should relax and think about something sexy during intercourse or mayb its the men u been with
2007-08-18 06:46:57 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Queen of Hearts♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not weird at all. Try different positions and angles, use pillows to prop your pelvis up.
2007-08-18 06:45:41 · answer #10 · answered by jaming_eye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋