because you know i'm a girly girl, 13 yrs. old and i'm attending all-girls school. so this school year there was a tomboy that really looks hot because she looks like a handsome guy and looks like katherine moennig (L word). I've got a crush on her, everytime I saw her I just turn around. I know that she likes me too because her friends always tease me to her, she always winked and looked at me (even though i'm just passing their classroom then she'll stare and smile) and me and a lot of people said that she likes me because she've told them. Me and my friends just keep it a secret. So, do you think she really likes me? do you think I'm bisexual? What should I do to make me and her close (cause I really like her)? Should I tell her that I like her too?
2007-08-18 01:57:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Denver N...
well you know i like a lot of opposite sex since i was 11... i have friends which are boys. and i'm a Christian too which is Roman Catholic. :>
2007-08-18 02:19:04 · update #1
Motochic467
I'm already 1st yr high school because we don't have grd 8. we only have grd 1-7 and some grade school here just up to grd 6. :>
2007-08-18 02:28:33 · update #2
kr_toronto
well yeah, you've already answered this question in my another question. :)
2007-08-18 02:38:33 · update #3
Do what feels good to you above all else.
i'd ignore all the people who are saying "dont do deviant behavior" whats their right to say what that is and what that isn't? none.
if you're going to be close friends thats cool if more so more power to you as long as you're having fun because at the end of the day that's the name of the game.
i'd talk to people in the lesbian, gay, bi community about this aka LGB or LGBT google or yahoo it.
2007-08-18 02:44:13 · answer #1 · answered by kashyyyyko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer is this! God does not make bi's or homosex. people. That is just a human choice backed up by the devil.
My advice to you is to enjoy purity and innocence and not get damaged. You will be SO messed up if you travel this road.
Focus on Jesus! Those who are sold out to Him, will not find it necessary to have sex or anything that is connected to this.
Those who are sold out to Jesus, help change the world. They go about doing good and destroying the works of the devil. They MAKE a difference in this world....not get caught up in it and do everything that "the world" does. I think your conversation should shift to something else. At such a young age, this should not even be the talk. I have completely commited my life to Jesus and He TRULY makes me happy.
I am sold out to Him and I no longer have my own reputation but His in me. I don't want to stain it but maintain it. Those who are really serious about Jesus will not be going to bed having sex, or french kissing, or anything like this. You are not bi or anything like that. You are created by Almighty God.
We are to follow Jesus and no other and nothing else. It is a life FULL of excitement, joy, peace, and fulfillment. My answer to your HELP question is YOU NEED JESUS! Follow Him! He is ALL your answers!
2007-08-18 15:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might like you. OTOH she might just be leading you on for a "good laugh." Hard to tell because a lot of people are like that at your age.
As for the other thing, you could be bi-sexual; but, more likely it is just one of those things. I am told it is perfectly normal to feel attraction for those of your own sex at your age as well as those of the opposite sex.
2007-08-18 09:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by geniepiper 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you have some growing up to do before you start thinking about relationships. Trust me, live your life a little, don't rush because Hollywood or everyone else thinks that you need it.
2007-08-18 09:03:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just try talkin to her as a friend for now and take it from there. Doesn't mean your bi or anything maybe you just want to talk to her but you don't know how to. just say hi and see what happens.
2007-08-18 12:00:14 · answer #5 · answered by Got some whipped cream? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her - than tell her...
You'll have plenty of time to find out if you are bi or not after that ;);)
2007-08-18 09:37:45 · answer #6 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are young and confused. Don't give in to deviant sexual behavior and feelings. You shouldn't even be dating till you are much older. Wait till high school and find a nice boy to date. You will be much happier trust me!
2007-08-18 09:24:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
You're too young to even know what you feel. You're in a very pubescent stage in your life. Don't give in to deviant behavior, especially one that is unnatural.
2007-08-18 09:04:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
well I'm a christian and i don't believe this because god created us to like the opposite and i don't know what2 say
u cant b born bi u chose it
2007-08-18 09:06:06 · answer #9 · answered by Denver N 2 · 1⤊ 6⤋