2007-08-18 01:49:09 · 35 answers · asked by Twiggy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its so pathetic when a woman is willing to accept crumbs from his table.
No man is that rich or that wonderful, in fact hes a pretty poor excuse for a man if that's all his wedding vows are worth to him.
Some men do stray, and they have the grace to work on it even if they fall again, but you are describing a man who is proud of it, he doesn't even keep it secret from you.
Ask yourself if you are happy with it, and if you aren't then leave, there are better fish in the sea.
2007-08-18 01:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by justa 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is obviously a ficticious situation as your husband would not be able support a 'few' mistresses (Not unless he was extremeley well heeled).
If, in fact it was a true situation & he did have several mistresses on the go, it would be proof that you are obviouslly not satisfying his needs at home.
You should forget letting your imagination run astray in here & post some factual questions...........
2007-08-18 02:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
My x-husband is a womanizer, that is why I left him. He was a good lover, but not a good husband & father. According to our counsellor, he is stuck in a pre-adolasence stage - at 39! I feel that it is a waste of tym trying to change/win him back into our family. I would rather put my $$, tym, effort n LOVE towards my 3 angels.. Let him waste his tym now, he will soon realise what damage he has done to the family, and by the tym he realise, it will be too late- tym is like a piece of GOLD, but a piece of gold won't buy a moment of tym..
2007-08-18 03:20:56 · answer #3 · answered by Ida 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Divorce would be the last thing on my list. After I do a few things to him that he will never forget. I would serve him a really cold dish of revenge for all the pain he caused me. No other woman would want him when I am finished.
2007-08-18 04:14:45 · answer #4 · answered by Dorothy D 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you could just divoce the chap.. but why not do it in a more sort of extreme way?.. play with his mind... if he asks where you're going tell him lies.. even if it's just the supermarket.. say your going to a friends. if you have children and your going to pick them up from somewhere.. leave a little bit earlier just to make him suspicious!.. he won't know what to think and will then realise that the whole cheating thing isn't good!
it's evil but will work! :)
2007-08-18 01:59:28 · answer #5 · answered by Badger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First he will never change!!!!!! Beleive me, I am the other woman, and I know they never change as long as they live. He may say he will but they don't. So for you I would go see a lawyer and kick his sorry *** out. Why put up with his crap? You deserve better.
2007-08-18 01:54:19 · answer #6 · answered by Kathy W 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave him because he is telling you that he doesn't want to be in a committed relatioship....and if I thought to stay with him and live with this I would think to get myself some counseling for myself esteem issues to understand that I am worh more than he is giving me.
2007-08-18 02:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump the bum. I don't want any STD's. Besides, we took marriage vows. They were supposed to mean something. Also, I would hire a really good divorce lawyer.
2007-08-18 01:52:53 · answer #8 · answered by soupkitty 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Leave. Get tested. And if you really want to have some fun with it, make sure the other girls know about each other.
2007-08-18 01:53:04 · answer #9 · answered by lotus princess 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would divorce him in a second. When we got married he promised to love, honor, and cherish me, and to be faithful to me and only me.
Id also get checked for STDs.
2007-08-18 01:54:32 · answer #10 · answered by Cebsme 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋