I am really confused with wether my boss is flirting with me or just being friendly:
He winks at me
He walks past me, looks me in the eye and then smiles
I passed him a recept the other day and he practically took my hand with it (Slid his hand down my hand)as he looked me in the eye and said "Thanks Skyla"
Walked past me the other day and quickly dragged hus hand across my shoulder
Another co-worker who my boss has been friends with for a long time said my boss told her he cares alot about me
Asked me to come up to his office and had a huge chat with me about random things like if i use protection, what would i do if i got pregnant, What i do in my spare time, Would i like more responsibilites with my job? is everythign alright?
Said when they sell the buisness one day that they are taking me with them
Always commenting me, saying im a bloody good worker.
Whne i went on holiday, he told me to be naughty but be carefull.
Sooo is he flirting??
2007-08-17 22:18:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Home & Garden ➔ Other - Home & Garden
I worked with him for about 5 hours today because he was training me to be a supervisor and he didnt try touch me, or talk to me inapropriatly or make a move on me.
even though he had a lot of chances because we were working alone together most of the time
Some people are saying if i have the same feelings for him then go on and have fun. but how would i make a move on him without hardowt showing him im making a move. just incase he isnt interested in me at all and pushes me off him?
2007-08-17 22:19:44 · update #1
It's a really, really bad idea to start a romantic relationship with your boss. If you really care about him, give him two weeks, find a new job, then give him a call and see if he wants to get together with you.
If you stay and start a relationship, and it goes really well, your co-workers might be jealous. And if it goes badly . . . well, he's not the one who is going to be looking for a job. Lovers' quarrels in the work place are not pretty.
Protect yourself, and keep business seperate from pleasure.
2007-08-17 22:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by Madame M 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tread carefully with this. By the sound of things he's flirting, big time. Caring about you is all fine and good, but it sounds to me like he's trying to play you and just schmooze with the charm. I hate to be so cynical, but it's obvious that he's interested in more than just your job performance.
One thing to note is that, as your boss, he's probably not going to initiate anything, because if he does and it's an unwanted advance, he's going to lose his job (I've seen guys nailed with sexual harassment complaints for much, much less). At just about any workplace his behavior would be seen as inappropriate, and frankly, I'd just be really careful if I were you. What might look like "having some fun" now could end up being a mess that will follow you around for a long, long time.
2007-08-17 22:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys always have one thing on their mind, an it is not Hooters Wings.
The guy is checking you out big time!!!
He did not hit on you during training because he wants to see if you can do the job correctly. He also knows that if you are in that position, he has a little leverage. He will give you enough rope to hang yourself, but will only do this if you get mad at his advances.
If you want to play, do it BUT let him know upfront this is for fun only, because it could get BOTH of you in a lot of trouble.
Once you tell him that, he knows that you will call HR if he pesters you. If you wait too late in the game, you will be fired for not completing work assigned IE the rope he gave you earlier to hang yourself with.
I hope this opens your eyes a bit more.
Now go drink a beer. You have been under severe pressure.
2007-08-17 22:35:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of the things you claim this man has done would amount to sexual harassment. Whether or not you encourage the behaviour you are on very dodgy ground. At the very least you ought to be considering your own reputation - once lost it is very hard to regain.
2007-08-17 23:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by CountTheDays 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is old saying that if you wanna lose your job, go and fuuck your boss. I advise you to fuucking stick to that.
2007-08-17 22:48:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHy do you care about his game? You are not a whore, right? So dont care then and dont pay attention to him, ignore him.
2007-08-17 22:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by Russian woman 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋