2007-08-17 18:51:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Im not talking about hating a social group or race or religion. I am talking of various individuals.
2007-08-17 18:55:32 · update #1
That's called being fake and I'm not fake at all! I'm %100 real no matter the situation.
'keep you friends close but keep your enemies closer' - i honestly don't understand that quote [ i'm probably the only one]
2007-08-17 19:21:49 · answer #1 · answered by pamplemousse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! I feel that way all the time, everyday of my natural-born life. I always felt self-betrayed because like the complete idiot that I will always be, I always try to see the good in everyone. However, I should have known that good doesn't exist in all people, especially the ones that I am trying so hard to be nice to.
2007-08-18 01:08:25 · answer #2 · answered by Louise Smith 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I either don't speak to them anymore or if it's someone that I may have to have contact with at work I say just what needs to be said and leave. I don't feel I should betray myself by being nice to them so I avoid them.
2007-08-21 00:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by Girly Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say that I hate anyone really. Very angry at a few, but not hate.
As to being nice to my enemies, I find it often soften their hearts and I end up earning a very good friend. One in particular as been like a second mother to me; if I had taken her initial rudeness to heart, that would have never happened.
2007-08-17 18:58:41 · answer #4 · answered by Linda J 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No.....I don't feel like I'm betraying myself in anyway, being nice to people makes me feel good....and if it makes me feel good, great. Who's to complain??? Besides being mean just brings up bad feelings and I don't want to feel bad now do I? Oh and being nice makes me feel like the bigger/better person.
2007-08-17 21:03:57 · answer #5 · answered by Busi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's in the working world, you have be nice to people, but it would be best if you kept your distance.
In your personal life or at school, be yourself. If you pretend to be something that you are not, you're only cheating yourself out of happiness. Be honest and real, and if they don't like it, that's their ordeal.
2007-08-17 18:57:46 · answer #6 · answered by Agent319.007 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think you have to find a good medium like you can't act all friendly and nice with them because then yeah you are betraying yourself but you can't really act super mean to them because then you'll just start to hate yourself for being such a dick.
2007-08-17 18:56:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
All the time, I'm really shy, and when people say rude things to me or about me, I'm still nice to them. Ahh, and after that happens, I just wish I would have said something mean.
2007-08-17 18:55:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, cuz i try so hard not be nice to ppl tht i hate but sometimes i have 2 and it is rly hard 2 do. so i feel like im betraying myself.
2007-08-18 06:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by Emm- just simply me! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I don't. I may dislike someone, but it is a waste of time and energy devoting myself to hating this person. I can still be cordial with someone, but I do not have to like them at all.
2007-08-17 18:58:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋