hi.. i havent seen or heard from my ex boyfriend in 2 months...last night i went to some lounge by me with my friend and i saw my ex kissing some girl...im not going to lie, even though i moved on, it did bother me a bit...after he hooked up with her he was by the bar by himself so i went up to him and said hi and we started talking...after that i saw some guy who i knew and we started talking (thats all, i didnt hook up with him or anything)...i saw my ex staring at us that he even came up to me while i was talking to the other guy...after that i walked out with my friend and that guy and his friend and i kno my ex saw it bc he tried getting my attention..then he calls me and leaves a message on my voicemail saying "i want you" but ur with another guy".. i get a call from him the next day apologizing to me if he said anything bad the night before cause he was drunk. then he asked me how i been? and what ive been up to? i mean seriously what does he want from me??
2007-08-17 18:11:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Sociology
If you truly have moved on, you would be able to answer this question on your own. Do you still want to be with him? Then be with him. Are you over him? Then be over him and find someone else. It's all up to you.
2007-08-18 03:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by Dan in Real Life 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's childish. I don't think he treated you, and also that girl he's with right now, seriously. I think he treats a girl the way a child treats a toy:
Give a child a toy, and he won't play with it. Get the toy away from him and he'll want it badly.
I guess people tend to appreciate something more when it's already taken by others, even if they didn't when it was theirs. And now that your former guy saw you hooking up with a new guy, he sees how good you are and so he wants you more.. and probably wants to get you BACK again, just like the child in the last paragraph.
It's up to you if you want to give him another chance.. but I say don't. Find a guy who'll treat you seriously. Not someone who treats you like a candy.
2007-08-17 22:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by At 15. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you back because he has never gotten over you, and if I am reading this correctly you still have feelings for him as well. You need to make a decision if you are going to give him another chance or completely end it for good because this isn't good for either of you.
2007-08-17 20:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by King Midas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Re-post asking "Male Children Only"
2007-08-17 18:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its natural. if theyres one thing guys hate is when you see your ex with another guy. just because he wnats you to cry over him so he can feel wanted. but when you hooked up with the guy, it hurt his self esteem. do not get back from him cuz its just so he can feel glorious and ittl make him think that he can get you any time he wants.
2007-08-17 18:21:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the guy you are interested in is very immature. What does that say about you? Move on. You can do better.
2007-08-18 01:58:05 · answer #6 · answered by fredrick z 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing games with you...lying about being drunk...avoid him at all costs...
2007-08-18 04:45:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh watttttttt?
2007-08-17 18:20:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TLDNR.
2007-08-17 18:18:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋