13 year old sex?

Question

my 13 year old daughter is addicted to sex. i dont know when this started, but i cant stop her. ive walked in her room with boys jumping out of her window, ive gotten calls from her school saying that she has been having sex in the supply closet. ive even found her with a boy on sunday! the only thing i have been able to do is make her use protection. what should i do?

Answer 1

Does her father live at home? She is at a very young age to be having sex; she may just be looking for companionship from the opposite sex if she doesn't have a good relationship with her father. Set up a father daughter outing with her father and see how that goes. If that isn't the problem, send her to Connecting Point for a couple weeks. My brother went there when we couldn't figure out where he was getting high all the time; he stayed there for two months and when he got out he was fine. It's just like going to camp kinda; she'll go to school and everything, but right after school she'll go there and they keep an eye on you. You can visit her anytime you want, and can take her home on weekends. Good luck!

Answer 2

tima to start kicking some a s s. try putting bars on the windows and not letting her out of the house. try paying more attention to her. i mean, you didnt know there was a boy in her room?? you were home right? and i agree with the other guy. try homeschooling. then she wont do it at school. you're daughter is turning into a s l u t real quick. time to put your foot down, be a mother, and stop it before it gets any worse or something bad happens. oh! and try getting her some sort of therapy.

Answer 3

im sorry tht guy below me . who sed 13 year olds dont think about sex he is very rong. once every kidd hits junior high sex is the maint hink kidds talk about. buht most 12-13 year olds dont really knoe about it.my parents didnt explain to me about sex wen i was younger i had no clue about it. i new a lil buh not the real deal. yes. i was 13 wen i lost it to. i think u should talk to ur daughter about it more. show her the bad things out of sex at a young age like stds n aids to b careful for n always use a condom n birth control n get the new shots . like gardensil for cervical cancer. n try to put more ground rules. be more stricter with her, and if nothign works. i dunno id say the maury show cn help cuz he helped alot of teens who were sexually active stop from the teen camps and stuff. well ii hope i helped =/

Answer 4

Are you serious? How can you not control your daughter. Take her out of school. Or take her to the Maury show. Stay home if thats possible. Lock her in your room or send her to boot camp. Take her to counselling. There are many things you can do. This scenerio seems far from reality and is very hard to believe.

Answer 5

no offense but did you discipline her well as a child?? cause when you don't this is what happens! you need to beat her with a belt. that's what was done to me when i behaved!

my options would be to:
- send her to boot camp
- don't homeschool!!
- send her to catholic all-girl boarding school in the middle of nowhere (they're very strict! i've been to one!)
- move elsewhere
- go on maury show
- send her to troubled teens boarding school
- get her into counseling
- ground her! (don't let her do anything at all! in the house and out of the house)
- tell her aunts and the rest of the family, she'll surely be embarrased and deserves it.
- set up an alarm system

Answer 6

I would suggest you get her therapy. This is NOT healthy at all. Sex should be a sacred and special thing. Think about her future husband, he's going to be so disgusted if he waited for her and she's been with all these other guys. Sex during adolescence has serious repracusions, I should know, I'm 16 and 15 weeks pregnant. Not only does she risk pregnancy and communicable diseases, but think of the emotional factor. Best of luck to you, I'll be praying for you.

You might consider sending her to boarding school but first you need to confront this issue and get her therapy. There are support groups. She is way too young to deal with this problem, she'll need your support. And yes, it's awkward but by facing it head on you are saving her life.

Answer 7

i would buy her a vibrator and say use that instead at least she cant get pregnant or catch stds from it but i would try and sit her down and talk to her about whats going on and see if she is doing this to get back at you or something or you can go to the extreme and put bars on her windows but i think counselling for her and to get a full blood work done for all disease to make sure but i think you have an uncontrolled kid there good luck with her

Answer 8

HAHA!! Thats kind of funny!

I dont think there is too much you can do.....she sounds like she is just really super horny....or trying to get attention!
At her age...it could be either, or it could be both!
She has got a lot of hormones, and she's only 13, so she is probably trying to FIT IN!

It seems to be a little out of control though! My advice would be to take her to a child therapist becuase there might be something wrong! She could be depressed and/or have a very low self esteem...or a very HIGH self esteem! So, take her to the therapist because it seems like you are not getting through to her! It sounds to me as if she is going through some sort of stage, and she might grow out of it! Well, she wont grow out of wanting to have sex, but she will probably grwo out of wanting TOO much!!

Good luck!!!

Answer 9

Lock her up. Hide her clothes, trainers etc give her no money whatsoever to go out with. Get loads of literature on STDs leave them for her to read. I'm 26 and those STD leaflets still scare the s**t out of me.

Answer 10

i would look into help for her. She is gunna end up with a baby. even with protection..she can get pregnant! Just to let you know... the more you tell her NOT to do something, the more she is gunna want to do it. Sooo... just make sure she is being as safe as possible. [maybe take her to get birthcontrol] & get her some help. Look into teen camps for girls... taht help with stuff liek that. Trust me, she needs to get help b4 she ends up with STDs or a baby =/ Good Luck!!