i want to have a baby..should i discuss it with my boyfriend if so how should i bring it to his attention..or should i let it just happen?
2007-08-17 17:15:17 · 10 answers · asked by Baby B 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
You should definitely discuss it with him first. Just pick a time when you are alone and have some time to talk to be honest with him. Tell him what you are thinking and how you are feeling. Don't put him on the spot to give you an answer, just tell him to think about it and when he is ready you'd love to talk to him about it.
2007-08-17 17:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by jilldaniel_wv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never aim to have a baby unlkess you are already married. Well,discussing the matter of having a baby with your boyfriend is I guess not a good idea. He may find a way to cheat you by taking your virginity and soon go and leave you a loser. Think about it too far before deciding. That is a very complicated issue you should discuss with yourself first before with any other people.
2007-08-18 00:22:03 · answer #2 · answered by Heide Lyn C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having a baby is a Huge responsibility, you should definitely discuss it with him. He may feel differently then you do.
Just tell him how you feel, and see what his thoughts are about it. Having a child, as wonderful as it is, doesn't always keep people together, be sure HE is the one you want to bring a child into this world with. Because more in likely, he will be bonded to you for the rest of your life.
You will know when the time is right.
Good Luck
2007-08-18 00:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would reccomend talking to your boyfriend about marriage first!
honestly, having a child is much more intensive and serious than getting married, while of course both decisions are extremely important.
if you dont have the money to get married, or he's not ready for even that kind of commitment yet, then he's definately not ready to have a child.
ignore your hormonal baby-making yearnings (i know honey, we all get them)
and do yourself a favor and get married to the potential father of your baby..
2007-08-18 00:51:51 · answer #4 · answered by slinky_frank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to discuss it. It is always better if the decision is both of yours. "accidental" pregnancy can be rough on relationships and he may be very upset with you especially if he doesn't want a baby right now.
2007-08-18 00:19:39 · answer #5 · answered by momof3boys 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its better to plan a pregency then to just suprise your boyfriend. he may feel trapped if you just get pregnant without you two planning it first. talk to him and see how he feels about the whole thing and go from there. best of luck.
2007-08-18 00:23:38 · answer #6 · answered by operation_caring2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to college, get married, then talk about a baby......
2007-08-18 00:18:28 · answer #7 · answered by cunfyoozed 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should talk to him first and if he is willing to have one then (try for one)...good luck
2007-08-18 00:24:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to him about it for sure.
2007-08-18 00:21:25 · answer #9 · answered by Rosey N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he comes open youre leg . he will do the rest.
2007-08-18 00:21:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋