There are times when I don't even want to live anymore!! :( He said he broke up with me because we lived on different ends off town and we couldn't see each other as much as we wanted to! He is also graduating High School early and going to Boston. He told me that we could possibly try going out again later and that he still loves me.. I don't know what to do! I love him so much and I don't want to loose him.. We're still friends and we still talk to each other.. I have a hard time not kissing or hugging him and I can tell he is the same way..
Gosh, I am so sad and I feel so sick!! :0 What should I do...? I'm about to cry right now just typing this!!!! I am so afraid that he will meet somebody else and forget about me!! I got my first job and I know that when I start that I will have such a hard time smiling at the costumers!
What should I do...? He is the only person besides my own mom who has told me that they loved me and really meant it!! I really want to try out our relationship again. I know I’m gonna cry tonight because I miss him!
Please help!!
2007-08-17 15:49:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yeah I will deffinatly stay in touch and be good friends! i hope we could go out again but if not I would love to be a close friend!
2007-08-17 16:04:07 · update #1
thanx Charles Murder, That does make me feel a little better..
2007-08-17 16:08:34 · update #2
Oh my, this is perhaps the saddest thing I have heard in a long time.
Sweaty, you're boyfriend sounds slightly out of it. It simply does not seem a legitimate reason to break up with some one because of residential arrangements. In Victorian and other classic literature, some lovers go years without seeing each other, and thousands of miles. I understand that you love him deeply, however, the possibility may exist, that this emotion is not mutual.
It is always worth living dear, simply learn to let go, and maybe, in some latter time in life, the relationship will rekindle.
In the mean time, maybe write about it. Art is a pinnacle form of emotional funneling.
2007-08-17 16:04:52 · answer #1 · answered by Charles Murder 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry *hug* It will be ok I think. I remember how hard it was. My first b/f and I broke up when we went to college. I loved him for a long time. We are still friends all these years later. It will be alright, really it will. Love him and love yourself. You might be together again, if not, unless you get caught up in the club scene too much -- there will be another real boyfriend. I've had a very few, and am now with Jonathan almost 16 years. We are very happy. It will happen for you too.
Peace and kind thoughts,
Reyn
believeinyou24@yahoo.com
2007-08-17 16:14:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the best thing to do is to Let Go. It's okay to cry about it. It's okay to eat a pint of Chunky Monkey too!!! Honestly, everything will be fine. You'll have other boyfriends, and you'll miss them just as much when you split up with them too. I wish you the best.
2007-08-17 16:12:06 · answer #3 · answered by cyanne2ak 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aww im srry hun
but u have to do ur best to move on
there alot of ppl out there that love u
u cant give up
bf's and gf;s are like dollar bills u never see the same one twice
2007-08-17 19:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by @XD_inc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhh, well...you should talk to him instead of missing him, just stay close friends, support each other until your lives cross ways again. or follow him wherever he is going so you can be close :)
2007-08-17 15:56:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get another one.
2007-08-17 17:55:04 · answer #6 · answered by Q guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋