Is Being Gay Wrong?

Question

I am just feeling that being Gay is wrong..... it seems sometimes i can accept myself but then other times i am not comfortble with myself, I feel being myself is wrong. What do you think?

Answer 1

Trust your gut. If you believe it's wrong, it is. Anyone that tells you otherwise is just looking after their own self interest.

People can and do change. Never accept that your actions are predetermined by birth. Seek help, and set goals. You can be the person you want to be.

Good luck!

Answer 2

I sure hope that you don't spend too much time thinking being gay is wrong. Many changes have occurred over the last decade that make being gay a whole lot more livable and acceptable than in decades past. I know it must be tough to think that you are just like everyone else but you are. Learn to find the positives and reaffirm those everyday. Your amongst a group of great people who want you to feel good about who you are. Hang in there, okay? :-)

Answer 3

I think that you were effected by cultural effects when you were young and have always had some internalized homophobia that you haven't really been able to shake. You agonize over it sometimes I imagine.

However, I think you are absolutely fine, and no, I don't think there is anything wrong with being gay. Like everything else, it is what you do with it that matters.

Live well, love others and love yourself, everything is fine.

Kindest thoughts,

reyn
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Answer 4

Being yourself, is not wrong or bad. Society can sometimes make you feel uncomfy with yourself, whether your gay, str8, black/white, large or thin.

Whats important the most is that your happy with yourself.

Your sexuality is your choice, hopefully those around you accept this and help you to feel better about yourself.

Best wishes

Answer 5

its not wrong. i know how you feel, i used to feel the same way. the only reason you think that, is because of people teasing/bullying you about being gay. they're the ones who think that gay people are gross and think they need to burn in hell. some people cannot accept other people for who they are. but sometimes, it isn't their fault. sometimes it's the parents fault for raising their kids to be like that. and other times, a little book-thing called a bible persuades people to think that gay people are going to hell. :)

Answer 6

No, there is nothing wrong with being gay. Quite the contrary, it's fabulous.

I understand how you feel. In fact, the vast majority of us know. We've all been there and we've all survived.

Counseling worked wonders for me. It really helped to talk to a therapist.

Answer 7

The Bible say it is and society says it isn't. I believe that your sexual orientation is your perferece and yours alone. There is absolutely nothing wrong with it. Maybe you need to get out and be with other men. You know maybe meetings for coming out gays and connect with others who are in the same boat as you are. Good luck.

Answer 8

Hey dude it's common among our people~ It took me 2 years for me to have total acceptance of me just as Iam. Take this saying to heart
"ACCEPTANCE IS THE KEY TO ALL OUR PROBLEMS" Dont let the other times get to you. Go To a MCC Church the gay church they were a help to me

Answer 9

NO. There is nothing wrong with being gay at all!! Surround yourself with people who are gay supportive, but essentially loving yourself comes from within you.

Answer 10

I think you have to get away or learn to overpower those influences which make you think that you are wrong. Whether its yur culture, someone, something, yur parents siblings whatever. Learn to be stronger than it. Try to renew your love for yourself by naming things you like about yourself and hang out with people who are in less self doubt with their sexuality!