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did others accept it?

2007-08-17 12:10:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

idk if i'm pregnant or anything, i had sex yesterday, used protection. but i just wanted to know what people's answers would be

2007-08-17 12:29:44 · update #1

15 answers

I got pregnant in february, and i didnt graduate high school til may. Alot of people knew i was pregnant, but didnt say much about it. The people who did were happy for me, because i was happy. Me and the father, we got married after we found out i was pregnant, not because i was pregnant, just because we're in love, and that just gave us one more reason to get married so soon. We've been together 2 years too. At school, the teachers were pretty excited for me also. Nobody really said anything bad, except for a few. But im now almost 29 weeks, and this is the best thing thats happened to me, and my husband. But if you are pregnant, im not sure about how people would react to it, because your school is probably alot bigger than mine, and if they say anything, blow it off, just know that you'll be the best mother to your baby.
Hope all goes well!

2007-08-17 14:54:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

I knew many many people that were pregnant while they were in high school (one that was in middle school) and to be completely honest it depended on the person if the pregnancy was accepted by the other students. Half of them were not trying to get pregnant, by no means (it was their first time), the other half just didn't realize that anything wrong would happen to them. The one girl that had a baby in middle school did ruin her life...she lost both of her kids, wound up in a bad situation. Three of my close friends became pregnant while in high school. Two of them have graduated, one has yet to graduate...she is a senior this year. I accepted it. Others accepted it, others did not. It all depends on where you are living at and how the community is.

2007-08-17 12:32:03 · answer #2 · answered by clytisciasha 3 · 0 0

I was class of 89 and my girl at the time Class of 92, It was more accepted(for lack of better words) Than it is now but you cant worry about that stuff sweatheart. people are always gonna judge and the ones preaching about God are the only ones that tend to do the most Judging. i dont know your family or how well you get allong with them but if I was you,I would tell your mother ur pregnate and deal with that. Any mother with any love for there child will support your choices no matter what.(as long as there not completely insane) So My advice and answer is yes, U can and will be accepted by your peers and those who have trouble with it need to grow up.U too, My friend need to grow up,It will happen whether you like it or not because your going to be a childs Mother. Just count the blessings you have everyday and be thankful for having a kind and loving family that should stick by you even if ,no matter what, you feel alone. Your only human and these things happen. Good Luck and God Bless you and your new Child....PEACE!!!!!

2007-08-17 12:27:45 · answer #3 · answered by Vince 2 · 2 0

i became interior the comparable place you have been in 2 years in the past. extremely some those that did no longer understand me only stared and the those that I knew did no longer react negatively. maximum folk did no longer even understand i became pregnant certainly on account that i did no longer get an excellent abdomen. I went to college up till the day I gave start which became in June and it became the comparable day that we've been achieved with finals and that i did no longer could desire to pass back for the final 2 weeks of school.

2016-10-10 11:02:26 · answer #4 · answered by ismail 4 · 0 0

WILL I AM PREGNANT I JUST GRADUATED THOUGH BUT I GRADUATED AT THREE MONTHS I HAD A FRIEND WHO WAS A SOPHMORE AND SHE WAS PREGNANT THE WHOLE TIME IN SCHOOL. I GUESS PEOPLE HAD TO DEAL WITH IT!
BUT THEY DID TALK AROUND ABOUT IT CAUSE SHE WAS SO YOUNG BUT DON'T CARE WHAT OTHERS THINK, IT JUST PUT TOO MUCH STRESS ON U IF U WORRY ABOUT OTHERS UNLESS UR CLOSE TO THEM.
WITCH IF THEIR FRIEND AND THEY DON'T EXECPT IT, THEN THIER NOT THAT GOOD OF FRIENDS

2007-08-17 12:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

im 23 and 15 weeks w/a girl i was not in high school but to ansewer your question it just depends on the person you are as in a bad or good person

2007-08-17 12:16:47 · answer #6 · answered by My Hubby Rob&Son Dakota Robert 5 · 0 1

I wasn't and the reason is that I was raised with morals and values. I respected myself and knew it was not right to have sex. Girls who became pregnant were looked down upon because in a time when there is birth control all over the place and at that age they should have respect for their own body.

Getting pregnant while in h.s. is a sure way to ruin your future.

2007-08-17 12:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 1 5

in my high school it seemed to me as if it were a trend. girls whom were pregnant got all the attention and friends. they werent treated badly at all

2007-08-17 12:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

people are always going to say stuff, i am 17 and pregnant and go to school, but i dont let stuff get to me

2007-08-17 12:18:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

well im in middle school and preg but im starting in 2 days im scared my freinds will not want to be with me anymore

2007-08-17 17:12:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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