2007-08-17 10:12:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
My stepdaughter was gay in high school. She chose to be straight after 6 years of that life style. People can change.
First - NEVER accept that your actions are predetermined, fixed by the stars and can never be changed.
Next- make new friends. Get rid of the crowd you hang out with now. Find people who have traits you appreciate. Their traits will rub off on you.
Then set goals for yourself. Be very specific. Specificity is the key for all goals to work. Review your goals every night. Check how you did. Do everything to reach your goal, avoid everything that keeps you from your goals.
Get a hobby. Fill your spare time. Idle hands are truly the devils workshop.
Tell your parents about your feelings. They are there to guide you through life and to help you when you have problems. Talk to your preacher. He'll understand.
Good luck. Keep focused, set your sights on your HS Prom!
2007-08-17 10:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by Dr Jello 7 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Honey at age 12 you shouldn't stress too much about being gay or gay thoughts. At this age you are just discovering you sexuality. It is said that everyone has some kind of attraction to persons of the same sex, it is normal but it doesn't mean you are gay. Love you have alot of time to decide what you are or are not. Anyways 12 is a little too young to be stressing about this...you won't be able to handle the stress that goes along with it right now. Or should I say comprehend.
2007-08-17 10:22:03 · answer #2 · answered by sumptinsweet4u 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about this at your age you should be enjoying your childhood. You'll have enough time to worry about stuff once you turn 15 or older. Being gay is not a disease and besides, you know you are different somehow since you are little.
2007-08-17 10:30:59 · answer #3 · answered by nevflo2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just go through a phase in their lives that lasts about a year. Think and dream about sex with girls . It will be more rewarding n a number of ways.
2007-08-17 11:20:16 · answer #4 · answered by Bibs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do until you come to terms of who you are. Give yourself time to figure out who you are - if you are only 12 you have a long road ahead of you in the terms of self discovery, but if you are gay, there is nothing wrong with it. If you like girls as well, just give it time, if you like boys too, you'll find someone one day who'll love you reguardless.
2007-08-17 10:17:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Once again, Bobby - you're going through an important time in your life. Uhm...guys...can I explain puberty or will I get zapped?
Anyhow, Bobby, just go with your feelings and don't worry about what is the norm. That's all I feel comfortable saying. XOXO
2007-08-17 10:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by gochefs (Geo) 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
be a kid ur to young to be having any kind of sexual thoughts whethers its gay or straight be a kid and enjoy that u have plenty of time to figure out that other stuff
2007-08-17 10:18:01 · answer #7 · answered by nikki 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are not gay. Stop thinking about it b/c you are obsessing over it. I'm sure you have heard about it so much from tv and others that you are bound to think about it. Go play a sport. Meet some girls. Get some hobbies.
2007-08-17 10:21:07 · answer #8 · answered by VOLLEYBALLY 4 · 0⤊ 5⤋
you don't have to DO anything about them. either you will discover you are gay or you are not. time and your personal experiences will let you know. you're 12y/o just be yourself! live your life!!
2007-08-17 10:18:05 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Your just going threw that stage where you are getting into puberty and horny as ever. You will get over it.
2007-08-17 10:18:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋