my husband want sex all the time what do i do?

Question

i tell him i'm tired but he wants it the only time i want it is when im drunk what should i do ?

Answer 1

Drink up?!

Lol only joking. Just be honest with your husband and tell him your sex drive isn't as demanding as his. He should understand? Compromise on a certain amount of sex per week for example. Don't let him talk you into having sex when you don't want to though!

Remember.. he can always turn to Pam and her five friends ;) Yes .. his hand!! Masturbation! Duh lol.

Answer 2

The only time you want it is when your drunk...............................??????????

You've answered your own question.

your husband may want sex all the time. Quite naturally he's feeling rejected, he's put two & two together and reasoned that you only find him attractive when you've had a drink or 8!

Now this may not be the case but have you told him? Do you still do coupley things? you know what i mean - hold hands occasionally, leave notes for each other, call each other by pet names?

You really need to examine your feelings for your other half and your relationship. Do you love him? Are you bored? Is sex a chore? Or an ordeal?

Basically - re read your question and ask yourself if why you wrote it. Your husband may not be perfect...........................

But are you the perfect wife?

If after all this you decide your not willing to face sex sober - either tell the poor sod why or get drunk more often. No-one should have to put up with a passionless relationship

Good Luck.

Answer 3

Things like this, the most intimate parts of a relationship are vital to keep open and understood, you need to talk to him and tell him how you feel perhaps try and negotiate.

If this works, try and break the usual routine, as this could be one of the reasons you're feeling so unhappy about your sex life. Try and go different places and spend time with each other in new ways, remember laughter is great for getting everything going and you need to try to sort this out rather than let it fester and turn into a bigger problem.

You need to be assertive and tell him how you feel. Perhaps trying new things in your day, not necessarily in a sexual way will kick start that libido and get you going!

Anyway, good luck and contact me if that didn't make as much sense as I thought it does
M.

Answer 4

If you are not entirely happy with your partner, first try negotiating with him, if that doesn't work force him into marriage therapy, tell him it's because he's hurting you or something, either physicaly or mentally, if that fails than move on; find a better partner. There are many good men out there.

Answer 5

Hmmm, that is a real problem. Professionals will be able to help you. I feel sorry for him because wanting sex from the woman he loves and married is the most natural thing in the world. I am lucky because my wife never says "no".

Answer 6

if you only want sex from your husband when you are drunk,
then there is something wrong with your relationship with him,
guess you both need some counseling and help.

Answer 7

What you really need to do is have your husband seek psychological help, from a counselor if he's obsessed of having sex with you all time.

Answer 8

u should talk 2 him and tell him he will get when he gets it he has 2 deserve it do something nice for u or when the time is right/guys always want it u should tell him that u 2 arnt gonna do it when ever he wants.

Answer 9

IF THE ONLY TIME U WANT SEX WITH UR HUSBAND IS WHEN YOU ARE DRUNK IT'S TIME TO GET A DIVORCE.

Answer 10

is the problem that he always wants sex or just that you feel he goes straight down there? maybe you just need more cuddles/kisses? if you just dont want sex you need to find the reason depression? abuse?