Why did god take him away?!?!?!?

Question

i know he was old...i mean he was my grandmas uncle...but he was also everyones uncle...does god know how hard it was to see my mom cry?..to see everyone sad...god knew he was alone in that house...why did he give him a heartattack with no one around!..why did he have to take a good man?!..♥

Answer 1

Death is a natural part of life.
It was his time to go, and we cry to mourn our loss, which is as natural as is living. It has no respect for good men. It only knows it must happen in the natural scheme of things.
He is at peace. When some time has passed, and you have all said goodbye and remembered how good a man he was in life, you will begin to heal a bit and remember him only with smiles.
Be at peace, and say goodbye.
You have a sweet heart, dear one.
Go hug your mom.

Answer 2

Oh honey, don't be sad forever.
Life is just Life. Life isn't Eternal LIfe. there's a difference.
at some time, life has to end, and no one, god or anyone else has anything to say about it. So, we really can't blame anyone, can we? We just have to let time heal the wounds, know that someone will come and fill the void created by your great uncle's passing, and know that if you really believe in God, you'll see your grandmas uncle again. See if you can celebrate his memory, ya know? Since was a great person and was loved by you and others, try to keep alive the memory of him, so that you'll never forget him, k?

OK, now i"m crying too, OK??

Peace and Prayers to you Screw :( _ _ _ _ _ _

Answer 3

God doesn't take people away, do not blame him. Death is a normal process of life due to accidents, illnesses, or old age. Not to be mean or anything, but he got a heartattack because he had a heart disease, and he probably had clotted arteries. This is due to eating foods full of cholesterol or genes. God doesn't tell people to overeat or make people have heart attatcks.
And I'm not trying to be rude or offensive, it's just medical fact. It's hard to convey this without sounding like I'm trying to make your uncle as if he was a glutton or someone who ate a lot of greasy food or someone who just had heart problems. My condolences on your loss.

Answer 4

Sometimes things happen for a reason. We never know why and we don't try to because at that particular time we are hurting so so much. God loves us more than life itself. He would never ever hurt us. When God calls we can't tell him to hold on, come back later, or wait I'm not ready.Your uncle is in a better place and everything will be alright. So sorry to hear that. Just remember he is looking down from heaven on u and your mom.

Answer 5

You don't say who wrote this piece, but I like it. No. No one can take God away from me. I remember when I was in fifth grade and President Kennedy had been shot. We were standing in the hall in line to go somewhere when we got the news and everyone stopped, bowed their heads and prayed for him. That wouldn't happen now. Have you ever noticed that every religion except Christianity is taught in school? Is allowed to be discussed in school? But don't let a Christian girl want to thank God during her valedictory speech. These are the kinds of things Christ told us would happen as we approached His return. The more they take these things away from us, the more we must pray to God for the strength to bear witness for Him and for the Holy Spirit to give us the right words. God bless you for sharing this gem.

Answer 6

It's not God's fault, it's life. If you don't want someone or something to die, don't bring it into the world. That's the plain fact of life and death.

However, instead of crying "woe is me," reflect on the positive things he has contributed to your lives. No amount of grief, blaming, and cursing God, the sun, the moon, the water, can change anything.

I lost an aunt. She was very close to me. I was torn up about it at first, but after the family sat around and reflected on her life and her accomplishments, we were no longer grieving, we were celebrating her life, her memory, and seeing how she touched our lives.

But no matter what anyone says, this is a part of life, and eventually we will all die as well.

Answer 7

There is always going to be sadness when someone dies, I think that's a pretty good thing, I'd hate for no one to feel sad when I die. If no one said I was a good woman, or cared if I went, I wouldn't have lived much of a life.
Your mom feels sad too, its part of her life that's gone, you have the chance to comfort her a little, to be empathetic and watch over her for a bit. That's good too, it makes you understand that life for the living goes on, and that you can do something to ease someone elses pain. Its a step in growing up.
Not all steps in growing are fun, some are painful, but the key is that you learn to deal with it in a strong way.
Everyone dies sometimes, the old, the young, and the in between, its sad, but there is no answer to the "Why" questions, except for the answer, "Why not"

Answer 8

It was his time. Those are some hard words to hear...especially when you are sad and seeing those you love sad as well. There is no good or right time to die...it is all in Divine Order. We are never meant to understand the whole picture until it is our time as well. Until then we can remember our loved ones and know that God needed them more than we did. I am sorry for the loss your family is dealing with. Stay close to them and grieve together. This is a rough patch for you but caring for your mom and her sorrow as you do so obviously care is a good thing. Cling to each other now and know that with time the pain will get less burdensome.

Answer 9

God has nothing to do with health. Everyone will go sometime. It is no ones fault. It is sad, but it is life. Only time heals. He will live as long as someone holds him in their heart. I was terrible when I lost mt dad. I know the pain. Someone has to be strong for the family. Can you do it? I do not believe God takes people. We can not escape death. God no God, it is a fact of life.

Dont blame, try to live the way your loved one would want you to live. Would he want you to be sad for him and blame God?

Answer 10

God has a time and place for everyone. And evidently it was his time. Everyone is born with a purpose and your grandma's uncle fulfilled his. I'm sure that he is in a better place now, and I am sorry for your loss.