I am sometimes afraid of dying a lot. I also worry that my parents will die some day and I will have noone...?

Question

I can trust fully. Why am I having such thoughts?

Answer 1

youre probably in your teens. its good to be thinking about this because after a while you'll numb yourself to the thoughts and soon enough you'll be ok with dying or losing your parents. haha that sounds horrible, i dont mean that you'd be 'ok' with it but just that it wont depress you as much with thoughts

Answer 2

You're having these thoughts because you're human. It's a sad thought to realize, sometimes suddenly, that you and everyone else will someday die. But it's something that happens to everyone, it happens all the time, every day, to everyone all over the world. Yet at the same time, new people come into the world all the time, every day, all over the world. New friends are made, old friends depart, new loves are found, old loves die.
The world is full of people worthy of friendship and trust. They don't all need to be parents. Not all parents are trustworthy, by the way.
People are here to be alive, to live as fully as they can, to share their lives with others and to help each other be alive. You are no exception. Just because death is a part of life doesn't mean life isn't worth the living. It makes life more precious and beautiful, knowing that it someday will end, as it is supposed to.
Treasure the life you have and the lives you share. Enjoy the gift of your life.

Answer 3

you know what, i have the same prob so if you get the answer i am going to check back. .Lately i have been worrying about my parents and even my bf. Not myself though. I can go, i am ready. I think you are scared of yourself bc maybe you're not ready to go. Also, i have been told that sometime you have a guilty conscience and dying and seeing god will terrify you. I don't know. But i have had thoughts and dream about my parents dying. I asked my mother and some people what this could be. THey told me that mentally, i am preparing for the worst. I am preparing for such thing if it were to happen. It sounded right bc when i had the dream about my bf, i was getting all his friends to come say goodbye to him in the hospital. =( i woke up sad...anyways, i hoped i helped with what i said.

Answer 4

You need to stop being afraid of it.
Know that it's not a matter of "what if".
Death will happen. We just don't know when.

Tell yourself that you will die someday, but why worry about it now? You will never know when it is. So just enjoy your life. If someone dies, then that's just life, too.

You can wait to see eachother in your afterlife.
Belief in Life after death helps a lot.

Even if you don't believe in it, but you can still tell yourself that it will happen. But it's not necessarily bad. I mean... Was being born bad? You dn't even remember. Death is the same. It will happen, and you won't even remember it, afterwards.

Birth is like a door which you opened.
Death is like a door which you close.
No pain, no hurt, nothing. Just closure.