I need help Quick,?

Question

I had sex on 25 of july and I was supposeed to start my period on Agust 5. Its already agust 17 and I don't have my period yet. I'm so worried. I don't have any symptom but my breast are more bigger and my they look weird specially my nipples. It was my first sex though, my boyfriend says since it's my first time it should take a while to come again because my body changes, but my lower parts are like bloating and filling up...it's that a symptom?. I need help. I also need someone to help me understand how ovulation goes. My mom didn't educated me in it.....HELP...Please....and sorry if my spelling is bad I don't live in the USA.

He din't eyaculate, but recently I'm having terrible cramps...

I don't have nausea or dizziness but I'm sweating a lot

Can someone explain me why i could be?

The problem is I have never gone to a doc for that...

I also suffer of amenorrea, my period comes sometimes and sometimes not and when it comes i don't even know because i don't feel any pain...could that be something?

I'm also having some kind of mucus and white things and I have to pee every 15 min... what that could be?

Can someone tell me something diffrent and stop telling me about the pregnancy test...? i need some explanation please....

Answer 1

do a pregnancy test and go to the doctors! it doesnt matter if its ur first time or not, u can still get pregnant, and it doesnt mess up ur cycle. i got pregnant on my first time so it does happen. go and buy a cheap home pregnancy test tomorrow and see what the result is. if its posotive i advise u to talk with ur parents and see a doc

Answer 2

Your boyfriend might not of told you the complete truth... Yes, sometime when you have sex for the first time, your period will start at a different time, but I always thought, correct me if I'm wrong people, that it could come earlier, not later..... I really think you are pregnant Hun.. Sorry... I would try to explain the ovulation thing to you, but it's kinda pointless... You can get pregnant anytime you have sex no matter when your period is due... I got pregnant with my daughter the day before my period started.. And I got pregnant two days after my period with my son.... So, the only way to really prevent pregnancy is to use birth control... Have your boyfriend or a close friend get you a pregnancy test and go from there.. If your are pregnant, tell your mom... And if your not, then I hope you will use this scare as a sign to not have sex for a while... Don't mean to be rude, but if your not ready to have a baby, you need to take all the measures to make sure you don't..

Answer 3

Well, you could be pregnant so if you're worried about that I would definitely get a home pregnancy test and see. You could also be under a great amount of stress with your worries and such and that could cause your period to be late. But by all means, get a home pregnancy test to know for sure. If it comes up negative try again in another week if you have not started your period. The symptons you are having could be a late period getting ready to start.

Ovulation is when an egg (and, occasionally, more than one egg) is released from the ovary, and it's the fertile time of your menstrual cycle. Each month, an egg matures inside your ovary. Once it reaches a certain size, the egg is released from the ovary and is swept into the fallopian tube toward the uterus. Which ovary releases the egg is fairly arbitrary. Ovulation does not necessarily rotate between ovaries each cycle. you must have sexual intercourse during the period spanning one to two days before ovulation to about 24 hours afterward. The reason: Sperm cells can live for two or three days, but an egg survives no more than 24 hours after ovulation — unless, of course, fertilization occurs. If you have sex near the time of ovulation, you'll increase your chances of getting pregnant. About 85 percent of women who have sex without using birth control will get pregnant within one year.

Even if your partner did not completely ejaculate there is still a chance for pregnancy because sperm leaks during intercourse...not just during ejaculation.

EDIT: Go to your local Family Planning Services center and have them check you out. Better yet, talk to you mom and have her take you to your doctor. Next time, I suggest you use protection.

Answer 4

Even though you don't want to hear it, you need to buy a pregnancy test and use it. You needed to get yourself educated about your body BEFORE you had unprotected sex. You are describing several symptoms of early pregnancy. Breast enlargement, occurs because the body is trying to build up the glands that produce milk for a growing baby. Feeling like you are "filling up" occur because after the fertilized egg finds a nice place to implant in the uterus, lots of things start happening to provide nourishment for a new life. This causes the uterus to soften, the cervix to get a bluish tinge from increased blood supply and thebladder to be compressed against the expanding uterus. Sperm can live inside the female body for 3 days. If an egg is available, the sperm know right where to go. All it takes is ONE sperm out of the thousands that are ejaculated to find that nice ripe egg and jump on it. Boom, you are pregnant.
You boyfriend is either ignorant or playing you, if he told you that you can't get pregnant the first time. This is such a crock of "you know what" You can get pregnant first time, last time, in the water, if he withdraws even if the sperm are on his fingers and then he touches you with it in the right place. Don't play games if you don't understand the rules. Sex is for adults and they should always use birth control if the objective is not to bring an unwanted child into the world. Life is tough enough without being an accident.

Answer 5

Basically every woman's body is different. I suggust a pregnancy test because that is the only way to know if you are pregnant or not. Even if he didn't ejaculate you still could be pregnant because of the pre-ejaculation that he wouldn't know is coming out. It is true however that if it is your first time having sex that your period will have a slight shift in its schudule. As for ovulation a woman doesn't know when this is happening unless she moniters her temperture or takes a ovulation test. Basically for a month your uterus is building a lining incase you get pregnant. During ovulation your overies release an egg that travels through your reproduction system to the uterus. If it doesn't get ferlitzed then the lining and the egg are released (that's what your period is).

Answer 6

Calm Down, I think you have totally stressed yourself. Stop imagining your body changing, it has not been long enough for the changes to happen, unless it is related to something else, this August the 5th, but then you say taht sometimes you don't get you period, so you can not really say August the fifth, after you calm down and when you can get the pregancy test, I doubt that you are pregnant, but you will know for sure. Try to talk to your mom, if not then try someone that you can trust, normally these things do get out, so don't be shocked. Take car and good luck.

Answer 7

Mucus is normal in all women not just pregnant women so disregard that. Frequent urination and sore breasts are both pregnancy signs. Only a test will tell you for sure (sorry!) but this website explains potential signs. Good luck!
<3 Kelsey

Answer 8

If you don't feel comfortable talking to your mom first,try taking a pregnancy test and if its positive see a free local clinic I'm sure they'll help you.

Answer 9

talk to someone like your mom or an older figure to help you through this. Being frank, you shouldn't even be having sex at your age or even before marriage. best of luck though

Answer 10

If you're not pregnant then you're probably ill--maybe an infection? That's why you should have the test--rule out pregnancy so you can get well.


oh, and buy a box of CONDOMS!